In this world, there are three things we should never believe, namely, men's promises, men's emotion, and men's excuses. If he gives you some life-long promise, that will be because he is not confident on your relationship; if he says to you that you are the woman he loves most in his life, that will represent that he has said the same thing to others; if he breaks his promises and gives you several excuses for that, please don't believe him. Men are good at making up reasons, and all the reason could be summarized to only excuses.

Men might be very sincere when promising, but would be also serious when leaving. When he no longer loves you, he has changed his mind totally. But he would just think that all that you once attracted him has disappeared.

Never try to win love from a person who is above the age of 35 , never married before, and so far hasn't had a fixed girlfriend. Such men might either lack love ability or have something wrong with their hearts. If you insist love such men, you would become the person who is hurt finally.

If you are interested in a man, just remember never show off your intelligence in front of him. If he is a stupid man, he would not understand your wisdom. And if he is a wise man, he himself is clever enough, so he is tired of clever women. But if you still want to let him know you are clever, please don't forget to say to him that,"You are so clever, you must already know that." Words are like that.

If you want to know whether a man loves you or not, just see whether he wants to let you involve into his world. He might introduce you to his family and friends. If he doesn't introduce you to his parents, that means he doesn't love you at all. Don't be lied. But if you has been lied, just think you are drunk in the past.

When a man meets woman, there is just one idea in a man's heart, namely, to sleep with her.

If you think some man is nice, and think you love him, please now pinch your leg. If you could not feel pains, congratulations! You are still dreaming. Please wake up.

Men always treat women well just in the beginning and dump them in the end. If you are a man who is thinking to break up a woman now, please think out a good excuse.

Don't be content at his chasing after you for long time. You had better figure out how often he calls you and visits you. If he does so every other week, please be careful! He doesn't do those for loving you, but for achieving his own dreams.

If he is not nice to you, break up with him absolutely. But please do that in a gentle manners because there would be different between gently breaking up and angrily breaking up. The former is due to his fault, but the latter is due to you personality clash.

Please let him feel sorry more. They don't know how to cherish what they have and just believe the valuable is what they could not have. Let him lose you and let him regret.

Don't be moved by his feeling of guilty. According to psychology view, when he feels guilty, he has repulsed you in his unconsciousness.

Every woman should be lied by a man once or twice. If more than them, she is not a woman, but a female pig.

When a man says "I like you", that doesn't mean he loves you; when a man says "I love you", that doesn't mean he will marry you; when a man marries you, that doesn't mean he would be nice to you forever; when a man says he would be nice to you forever, he is lying. All that means he is lonely and weary.

Men are such animals whose appearances are like peacock, whose temper are like bulls, and whose actions are like some horses.

I only skimmed your post after I was insulted the first two times serena. Afer that I knew it wasn't worth paying too much more attention to.

Your generalization of all men is simply wrong.

We are not all like the picture you paint above.

Im sorry you feel this way. Your poor boyfriend.

'Women's only desire is to find someone to submit to' (c) F.Nietzsche
Well, this statement backed up with a solid hardhead's name, does it make sense?
I guess, humans aren't that simple as you describe it. Peace ))

NOT all men are are like that. MY ex fiancé broke up with me 6 F'in times. And I loved her with all my heart. I'm sorry you were treated like crap. But if you knew the h*ll I went threw maybe you would change your opinion. I feel sorry for you.

I hope you feel better having letting all that out. Great rant.

Statistically women file for divorce more than men. :)

Great rant, but pretty insulting too.

I'm sorry you feel that way.

Wow, you must pick some "interesting" men to date.

I also just skimmed it.
Most guys I know are good people.

When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. It's a whole different way of thinking. Men and women are different in many ways, there is no need to complain about it all the time. Be wise and be cautious on whom you will meet next time, just think like most men ratioanlly(not all are rational,LOL), take things easy and learn from the past experience, don't find a man that makes you cry any more.
Good luck.:)

I was depressed for a long time. No UN sanctions were made against me. :) (this time)
Men hurt more than you think lol, we just hide things more

WOmen need to learn to hide their emotion sometimes too. Think more rationally! Men and women need to learn from each other. :)

My very best friends in the world are female.
They have done a lot more for me than my male friends
Though with my male friends, they are constant and steady, no falling outs, no fights, no moods, etc. with the chicks, its very complicated and the friendship is very difficult at times, but its worth it.

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Originally Posted by cal823

my very best friends in the world are female.
they have done alot more for me than my male friends
tho with my male friends, they are constant and steady, no falling outs, no fights, no moods, etc. with the chicks, its very complicated and the friendship is very difficult at times, but its worth it.

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LOL, my best friends have always been females. Also very steady,no falling outs, no fights, no moods. Coz I try to think like a guy(in a good way e.g.rational) as also being sweet.:) I really think I learned a lot good things from men(my classmates),-I studied engineering:p . The world itself, is all about learning from each other:)

The only thing is that I am too rational and "powerful", that intimidates guys sometimes. But I still like to be that way:D
P.S. I know I don't look like that,LOL, but yea, that surprises men:D

You feel this way, because you looked only to be loved, but didn't love herself. Forget about promises, don't ask and don't listen. Just love. You will see how everybody fly to you like butterflies toward light. Just remember Beatles: All you need is love

For women, love means being loved.:P

paunash disagrees: whoul you like to give anything to one who only takes and don't give?

I was laughing at this, I don't agree at this at all.

LOL, should have made clear about it, that it's wrong for women to think that way, but I don't want to be too frank on that part. U understand me now?

Serena- I read your post... and for the most part I agree... I can relate first hand to your feelings... but I will say that not all men are like this. There are many men out there that are very loving and honest and would lay down their life for the woman they love. God created us different for good reasons. There are many women out there who fit your description as well. You have been hurt deeply and feel resentful- my advise to you would be to forgive the men in your life and love yourself... you deserve a good man and he is out there- Good luck Serena!

Wow Serena, I could only read the first few lines and just see how bitter you are. Goodness girl!! Have you considered counseling?