OK so I met this girl and she is pretty much amazing. She does everything, she always smiles, and she loves the heck out of me. We moved in immediately after meeting each other cause we really wanted to. Probably not the best decision. Now its been 4 months and I don't have that same feelings as I did. Its so difficult living with a girl when I'm not the type of person that would do that. I jumped in to quickly. Im just a young guy that wants to have a normal relationship but it seems to me that living with a girlfriend automatically makes it something more. She is probably the greatest girl I have ever met but living with her is just making it so difficult! Aaahhhh! What can I do help out my situation or even solve it all together.

Your soloution is simple. Some people go into a marrige with that same mentality. You are not married, you don't have kids, and you are young. You simply have to man up and tell her that you are having second thought about living together. I know there are some important parts that you left out, but I can guess. The bottom line is that you may hurt her fellings a bit by moving out, and taking it slow for a while, but if that is you decision then that is it. You are not leaving her, you are simply moving out. Remember communication is paramount in these situations.

Do you think there's anyway to get back the feelings you had about her so living with her is berable (or even better the way it was at first)? Talk to her about it... She might understand and if she doesn't then I don't know (She might even feel the same way!) But there's the possibility that you could work it out... Go to a professional like couple theropy or somebody... Do you want to fix it? Do you have time to yourself.. mabey you both see too much of each other? Hope this helps some
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