I have been best friends for this girl for about 4 years now and she has had a boy friend for most of that time. 2 years ago she took a break from him and we realized we had feelings for each other but nothing really came of it. We seem perfect we have so many things in common, we finish each others sentences all the time and we have to most amazing time together. She ended up getting back with her boyfriend after a 2 months break. It felt like a punch to the face, but being a good friend I didn't get pissed a abandon her. About 3 months ago they broke up again but this time it is more serious she say she doesn't like who he is any more and we've became friends with benefits for a lack of better words. She says she still loves him, I try to be supportive to the best of my abilities but, she can't see what could be of us. We've talked about possibly being together in the future, and she says she doesn't want to be with me because its not fair to me that she not over him. I leave for active duty in less than a year, so I don't have much time. I don't want to ruch her in anything because I have more respect for her then to do that. But I just don't know what to do.