I need an answer


When ever me and my b/f are together he sometimes checks out other chicks I do sometimes but when he does it I feel insecure like he wants to be with a hotter chick than w/ me and its probably I'm jealous and I hate it because I check out other chicks to and he isn't like that. I always get mad and ask him dumb questions like is she hotter than me? u want her instead of me don't u? And other dumb questions and he is always like shut up don't be stupid. I want to stop but I don't know how~~~~> please HELP ME STOP!!

I think you should break up with this guy. You seem very unsure about him and have a new problem every week. Hopefully when school goes back you'll meet someone new.

Any guy that makes you feel jealous and insecure is not worth it.

But, guys will check out other gals - as long as he is with you, it's OK - BUT, if you get that gut feeling he is looking to cheat - move on. No one needs those types of feelings.

QUIT the dumb questions as well - he will only use them against you. AND they show jealous and insecurity, which are major turn offs.

And - if you have these thoughts - they will lcome true - if you feel that way inside - being a woman - there is a good chance they are true.

Find a good guy you will feel safer and more comfortable with - this guy sounds like massive trouble.

Again... this all boils down to those two Big words...

RESPECT and TRUST

You don't trust him

It appears he doesn't respect you

= you need to seriously talk with him - and don't accept his a-hole answers.

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Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Again....this all boils down to those two Big words....

RESPECT and TRUST

You don't trust him

It appears he doesn't respect you

= you need to seriously talk with him - and don't accept his a-hole answers.

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Well he does respect me its just I feel bad because when I look at other girls/guys he doesn't get mad or ask questions he says yeah she is hott or no I don't like her but I don't know I know I love him and he loves me I just don't want to loose him and that's probably why I get all jealous and stuff~~~>more advice welcome.

Well - it doesn't sound that healthy if that's the way he makes you feel.

Again - read ALL I posted. You have to.

IT's sounds like he makes you feel real needy of him and that's not good either.

I highly suggest find other things inportant in life and cut this guy out a little bit - school, work, FRIENDS, WORKOUT, family, hobbies...

Youe s/o is a small part of your life - not your life.