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  • Jul 24, 2007, 06:13 PM
    HaRLoS
    Boyfriend?
    My boyfriend and I now have been dating for 6 months, and he has anger issues, he went for a nap and told me to wake him up in half an hour, so when I went to wake him up, he called me a and told me to shut up... no I think this is a little ignorant. Also whenever we have an argument, he never wants to deal with it, breaks up with me, or leaves.

    You guys probably think I have a lot of problems, since my last question was about him too... but he can be the sweetest guy ever too. I just want to know what I can say to him to make him realize that the way he treats me is wrong?
  • Jul 24, 2007, 06:21 PM
    nicespringgirl
    Is he educated? Does he work with others? How old he is?
    I think it's normal for you to ask about this, u have no problem!
  • Jul 24, 2007, 06:24 PM
    Emland
    He sounds incredibly immature and not ready for a relationship. I am sure you could do better. There is no reason for you to put up with that kind of behavior.
  • Jul 24, 2007, 06:41 PM
    Skell
    Too much drama for someone you have only known six months. Id get out now before you invest anymore time on this guy. Sounds like he has issues he needs to deal with before getting into a relationship.

    There are so many great guys out there so why waste time at this point with someone who is angry and breaks up with you all the time?
  • Jul 25, 2007, 05:45 AM
    SAB123
    I would get out of this relationship my ex fiancé kept breaking up with me. Now after almost 5 years togther she has broken up with me again. You don't want to keep going thur this 5 years from now. Sound like too much drama.
  • Jul 29, 2007, 01:20 PM
    talaniman
    Don't let him get away treating you this way. When he acts a fool LEAVE. Ain't that much love in the world, to be putting up with all that drama and disrespect.
  • Jul 29, 2007, 01:22 PM
    s_cianci
    There isn't anything. You can't reason with someone like that. RUN away from him as fast as your legs can carry you and don't look back.
  • Jul 29, 2007, 01:23 PM
    GlindaofOz
    If anything you have said so far has not made him see how he treats you is wrong, nothing you can say will make him see. He may believe that he is right to treat you like this because you are "bothering him" or some such nonsense.

    As I told you before there is just a hop, skip and jump to a slap in the face or a punch in the mouth. That's how controlling, abusive men work. They treat you like garbage then turn around and act sweet. Its to make you feel bad about leaving. Leave now. I don't want another message on here from you in 6 months asking how to get him to stop beating up on you. Please leave and find someone who will be sweet to you ALL the time. You deserve it.

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