Hi:),
I'm here because I need help and well ma problem has to do with my boyfriend and his family.. my boyfriend and I really love each other but his mother and father don't want us together so its hard to see each other and be together :(.. and well all me and him want is to be with each other but its hard what should we do?? :confused:

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Originally Posted by miszcrazi4eva

Hi:),
im here because i need help and well ma problem has to do with my boyfriend and his family..my boyfriend and I really love each other but his mother and father dont want us together so its hard to see each other and be together :( .. and well all me and him want is to be with each other but its hard what should we do ????:confused:

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What you're most likely wondering is why your boyfriend's parents feel it's best that you two stay apart. The first step to take is find out. If you never know the reason why they feel separation is necessary, then it'll only make you frustrated and leave in a sitting duck position with no idea what's wrong or what to do. Maybe the reason is as simple as age difference, in which one of you might have to do a little maturity proving. Or it might be that your boyfriend's parents simply have a lack of trust that the relationship will continue or grow. However, if you try to get revenge by doing something stupid, I can assure you they will not give in to you, but rather make things somewhat tighter and even more restricted if that's possible! So sit back, relax, and try to work things out calmly and rationally. And if that doesn't work, and the love between you and your boyfriend seems too good to be true, remain very extremely close friends until you're 18 :) , and then break free! Trust me, if you love him that much, and he loves you that much, then time will take it's course and you'll end up together! Best of luck!