Is kinky really a bad thing? Is there something wrong with me for having fetishes? I can do without them, and if the person I'm involved with isn't into something, then there is no prob.

No it is not a bad thing. Like you said if your partner does not want to get involved then there is not a problem. I would say no worries then, right? Just because somebody have fetishes does not mean you have to actually live to play them out, right?

If you are all consenting adults (and you don't hurt any animals) what's the problem? You only live once!

Yes, true, they are not necessary, but would be nice, and they are harmless ones, doesn't involve anything outside just she and I

No, there is nothing wrong with you for having a fetish or two. If you find a partner to share those and both of you can enjoy that, there is nothing wrong. You keep it between you two, the activity is not illegal nor does it cause harm to anyone. Just keep the lines of communication open, should either one of you change your mind and wish to not participate.

Every person who has ever had sex has a fetish. Wheather it be for legs, breasts, butts, shoulders, hands, arms etc.

The only fetish that you need to watch out for are the ones that control your life and dictate wholly who you will have a relationship with. i.e. exteame bondage etc. Although harmless to start with they can esculate into something later that you are unable / unwilling to deal with and become more an obsession than a fantasy.

Take care and enjoy what you do, as long as you both enjoy no harm done.

Nicnet

NO! The kinkier the better!! But just not too kinky like whips...

No. That simple.

HOWEVER, don't do anything you're not comfortable doing for someone else's pleasure....

Kinky is a good thing... it keeps your relationship fresh and interesting.