OK, I'm a 13 years old girl and I've NEvER had a boyfriend:eek: , it sucks but OK I'm a very tall girl I'm 5'7" blonde curly hair and no acne, short hair (a bob), and I have a huge crush, it may be love:D , but I have absoulutly NO idea if he has any feelings for me:( , is there anyway I could find out??

~thanks much

For a start, I would suggest telling him that you are impressed with certain things about him and see what he says. That could be one way of finding out. I would suggest saying things in a fun way, also. Not be real serious, yet honest.

Hopefully, others will come along and contribute their advice, also.

First off, at 13, you should be more worried about doing well in school than boyfriends. That you haven't had one yet is perfectly fine--you're thirteen! You'll have plenty of time to go out with dumb, worthless guys when you're in college.

But if you insist on this one, a lot of guys (especially around your age) won't make a move until they think you're interested... so you should show some interest in him and see what he does.

Start by talking with him, flirting, twirling your hair, accidentally dropping things in front of him and picking them up very slowly--things like that.

Haha I'm 13 As well And I've Only Had A Few Boyfriends. As Huno Said, You've Got Plenty Of Time. Maybe You Should Try Telling Him That You Like/Love Him.

I Know That I Once Liked This Guy For Like Over Half A Year And He Ended Up Telling Me That He Had A Crush On Me And We Went Out.

You Never Know If He Does If You Don't Try To Find Out Or Take Risks.

Anyway I Wish You Good Luck

I was 20 before I had my first serious GF. Don't worry about it. Your 13, you shouldn't be worrying about bf's! Plenty more life left for that.

My advice, I mean it worked for me- study hard and make more friends.
To early to have boyfriend, they might drag you down if you are not careful.
When you grow up , like my age-23, u can think about having a boyfriend.
It's okay, if you feel left out, overall it is worth of it, being single, focus on your school and leadership, maybe sports. Build yourself a good foundation first, hun.

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Originally Posted by depressedhelp

ok, i'm a 13 years old girl and i've NEvER had a boyfriend:eek: , it sucks but ok i'm a very tall girl i'm 5'7" blonde curly hair and no acne, short hair (a bob), and i have a huge crush, it may be love:D , but i have absoulutly NO idea if he has any feelings for me:( , is there anyway i could find out??????

~thanks much

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I love your post though, the"eek" surprised? It's okay girl wait until you grow up and have a solid foundation. ( I am cute too, it's normal, for cute girls no boyfriend sometimes, you are not the only one):)

When I was 13 I was almost 6 feet tall! It can make you self conscious because you feel lilke you stand out from everyone else - also most of the 13 year old boys are much shorter than you are. Whatever you do, always STAND UP STRAIGHT! A gal who radiates confidence is very attractive to both boys and other girls who will want to be her friend.

There is so much fun to be had at your age. Forget the boys. Make some great gal pals and go out and have some fun. There will be plenty of boys in your life later on.

I don't think you should just tell him flat out, I think you should try talking to him when he's not around his friends. Or if anything, if you have a connection to be around him, for example: you're friends his friends girlfriend or something like that than go with your gal pals and chill with him and his friends during lunch, and just have fun and goof around. Hell think its more attractive if you smile and your not afraid to show him you can tlak to him. Just don't make yourself too available looking, or desperate, let him know that HE should make the first move but you can egg him on at that.

:P... don't worry, your 13, time is on your side.. nicespringgirl.. is right, you should focus more on yourself and boys later. But if you want to find out more and see if he likes you or not, then I suggest at first becoming his friend, showing interest in him and most importantly be yourself. Don't get upset if he doesen't like you the way you might want him to, there are plenty of nice guys out there. If he's 13 or below 18 then be prepared for dissapointments.. :P.. young guys are verry immature. Another thing you might want to consider is yourself, always put yourself on first place and never do anythig that "will make him happy".. but you unhappy. Watch yourself and don't get into truble, talk to your parents at first about this.