Um okay me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year now but are young and do not want to have sex for awhile but need other ways to be close and pleasure each other is this okay and I need suggestions on what he can do to me and wats okay and won't affect me in a bad way.

It all depends and what you are willing to do.

There is always oral sex, mutual masturbation, toys, etc.

On the more romantic side, you can take bubble baths or give each other massages. :)