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  • Jul 19, 2007, 09:26 AM
    cuty_pie
    Should I call him?
    Hi... so here is my question... I went on a date with this guy last night... Actually we knew each other from about 10 years ago. Back then he was interested in me and I was not... We are both recently single.

    We went to dinner and after words we went to see a show.. we then went to have a drink and we ended the date at midnight (cause I was working today).

    I fell that it went very well and that we both had a very pleasant time. He also seems to be somewhat shy and not the type of guy that would initiate the first kiss on the first date.

    My problem is that I would write him an email saying that I had a great time and all but his ex left wit the PC (we started communicating by email). I would also wait to see if he calls but because my ex still comes around to pick up some sutff I am sure that he won't call me at home...

    I would truly like to see him again and go on another 'date'. We also have a trip planned with a friend and I am sure that it's the type of activity he would like and he did meet my friend last night and they got along great... Should I call him and ask him if he would like to come??

    Thanks for your advise!!
  • Jul 19, 2007, 10:56 AM
    Lotz_of_Questions
    Call Him! You say your date when well, let him know by calling and inviting him to the trip.
    You have nothing to lose girl!

    Good Luck:)
  • Jul 19, 2007, 01:02 PM
    victoria_mitchell
    HELL YEAH! This is EXACTLY how I got with my current boyfriend/future husband lol except my boyfriend was in your position. You could be missing out on the opportunity of a life time. Jump on this opportunity because if you don't the worse part is you'll never know what may or may not have happened, and you will regret it later.
  • Jul 20, 2007, 10:13 AM
    taeshawn
    Yes of course you should call, there's all the reasons he can't call an u say he's shy so definitely CALL HIM!!
  • Jul 21, 2007, 07:40 PM
    s_cianci
    Go ahead. You've got nothing to lose.
  • Jul 21, 2007, 08:45 PM
    yoitzlisa
    Call Him . :)
  • Jul 21, 2007, 09:54 PM
    WillL300
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cuty_pie
    Hi... so here is my question... I went on a date with this guy last night... Actually we knew each other from about 10 years ago. Back then he was interested in me and I was not... We are both recently single.

    We went to dinner and after words we went to see a show.. we then went to have a drink and we ended the date at midnight (cause I was working today).

    I fell that it went very well and that we both had a very pleasant time. He also seems to be somewhat shy and not the type of guy that would initiate the first kiss on the first date.

    My problem is that I would write him an email saying that I had a great time and all but his ex left wit the PC (we started communicating by email). I would also wait to see if he calls but because my ex still comes around to pick up some sutff I am sure that he won't call me at home...

    I would truly like to see him again and go on another 'date'. We also have a trip planned with a friend and I am sure that it's the type of activity he would like and he did meet my friend last night and they got along great... Should I call him and ask him if he would like to come???

    Thanks for your advise!!!

    Yes, calling him would be a good idea. If things seemed to go well, then it's definitely worth a shot at it.
  • Jul 21, 2007, 09:59 PM
    Clough
    Please just call him. The personal touch of communicating by voice is best.

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