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  • Jul 19, 2007, 07:52 AM
    TexasMamma
    :confused:
  • Jul 19, 2007, 07:58 AM
    GoldieMae
    Angela, if the relationship is as you say, then you need to get out of it. How is your relationship with your parents? Will they help you out? Have you contacted any women's groups? Are you afraid he is going to hurt you or your daughter? It sounds like your husband thinks of you more as a child than his wife, which is creepy. :(
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:00 AM
    TexasMamma
    Well my dad lives with me and him, I don't think he would ever hurt us, he had never tried to physically harm us.. im just confuesed
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:05 AM
    GoldieMae
    I know this sounds odd, but talk to your dad about it. I'm sure he loves you and wants what is best. I would trust his gut.
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:18 AM
    talaniman
    Wow you guys started so young, and moved so fast, its hard to know where to start. For one thing you both have to raise this child, so make that a priority, and put it first in your life. Next you really need the guidance of an adult professional to counsel you in the ways of behavior where you both feel up to the task before you. The main problem as I see it is you both have no clue, how to love each other, or communicate in an adult way, and these things are essential to a couple. You both are still so young and still have a lot to learn, so what you both need is a teacher to show you the things you both need to know, because whether you stay or go in this relationship, you are tied at the hip with this child, and you will have to be good parents no matter how you feel about each other. Get some much needed guidance.

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