Well for starters.. my name is chelsy and I need help figuring out to do with my boyfriend of 3months. We started seeing each other during school, not dating just seeing. Well I knew his ex-girlfriend and him stilled talked and stuff... I just didn't think much of it. Anyway ill get to the point. After me and my boyfriend started dating for the past 3months we have had to have at LEAST 3-5 arguments about his ex-girlfriend... and to be honest I'm getting sick of fighting over the same thing over and over again.
Just a few days ago we got into another fight about her, he has been texting her and telling her that he loves her still and that he Wasn't dating me, somehow she got my cell number. I confronted hima about it and he said he never meant anything he said to her, and that he only loves me and wouldn't ever hurt me, and that he was only messing with her head and wanted to piss her off because he knew she still liked him and wanted to stand her up and . He even said he would stop talking to her, but no one, including me, believes that it will last long. I don't know if he is lying to me and playing both my and his ex-girlfriend or what.
I REALLY would appreciate some help here... I love this guy so much... and I have revealed so many dark secrets to him that no one else knows seeing he also gave me his trust in return. Please help... does it sound like he is cheating? Or do you really think he was just trying to piss her off??

It doesn't sound like he is cheating, he just sounds like a stupid immature little boy. If he said any of those things to his ex, for whatever reason, it makes him a loser. Why waste time on this silly little boy? 3 months is nothing in a relationship, move on and find someone who isn't such a jerk.

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Originally Posted by Squiffy

It doesnt sound like he is cheating, he just sounds like a stupid immature little boy. If he said any of those things to his ex, for whatever reason, it makes him a loser. Why waste time on this silly little boy? 3 months is nothing in a relationship, move on and find someone who isnt such a jerk.

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Thanks, I know 3 months isn't much but I have really gotten close to him while we were seeing each other throughout school. This is the only issue I really have with him... other than that he has been there when I needed him and stuff. Its just hard because I have been cheated on in the past and I don't want to go through that again.