This guy has a girlfriend, but is all the time holding my hand, and saying he is looking for someone else, he always sits with me, smiles at me, talks with me, and his girlfriend is there while this is going on, I don't know what to do, or how to show him how much I love/like him.

First of all, if he is holding your hand, he is cheating on his girlfriend. Secondly, you don't LOVE him yet, love takes a very long time to actually develop.

If he is doing this to you behind his girlfriend's back, consider what he is doing behind your back.

I agree with J_9! If he dose this he may be do-n it to other women! You should find another guy one that will be in-2 u, if u know what I mean!

Yeah, I see what you two mean, it is so hard to get a guy these days... lols

J_9 is right about it!
He is too young to understand love either, he is not sure who he really likes.
If u don't have a super high standards that is not difficult to find a guy.
If you are in college, you can go to engineering lab, LOL.
If you are in high school, there are lots of HS students working in gerocery stores during summer.
Oh try best buy,LOL.;)

Lols, all right, thanks everyone

Oh and home depot if you are in the US,LOL. J/k... it takes time,girl. Don't fall for jerks.

Obviously the girlfriend does not care about him that much if she is letting him flirt with other girls. He may not be a great guy either if he is flirting with you and not staying with his girlfriend. Stay looking, don't get attached to him. It takes time, eventually you may realize he's not the one for you, and if it is meant to be it will happen. However, do not flirt with him when his girlfriend is around. This may cause more problems.

If he is going to cheat on his girlfriend, and not have the balls to break up and then look for someone else, it doesn't speak well on his character.. don't date him :)

He's not worth it, he would probably be doing the same thing to you. He's a dog...

You can... no you deserve better! And some guys think it is hard to find the right girl!! I hate it when I see the girls around my area go-n with the jerks cause a couple weeks later they end up getting hurt when it could have been prevented.

If this guy likes you then wouldn't he dump his girlfriend and go out with you or is he trying to make his girlfriend jealous bcause I had a best mate and he was a boy an we wa really close but then 1 day e told me that he was only being my friend so that he made his girlfriend jealous so she would give him more attentoin