Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm in need of some help... On June 10th my boyfriend and myself had sex without protection and we just decided that when he felt he was about to get off he'd pull out... Sooo we did it about 4 times that way and he didn't use the bathroom after any of those times. IM SOOOOOO SCARED is there any possibilties that I could be prgnant? I feel sick after I eat sometimes and I'm always very tired. I don't feel the like I use to. Can some one please help me!!

Yes, percum has enough sperm in it to get you pregnant :)

I am sorry to tell you that it is possible. Now you are playing the waiting game. You now have to wait to see if you miss your period.

From now on, use protection. Understand, though, that NO form of birth control is 100% effective. If you are not ready to be a mother, you should abstain from sex.

Well telling a girl to not have sex isn't the answer... Look at the way the world is today. I feel if you are going to have sex PLEASE PLEASE always use protection. You can get a pregnancy test that will tell you this soon if you are or aren't. You need to think of std,s not just not getting pregnant. Sweety you are at an age where you hormones are full force and you need to think of your future. I know when you are 15 you don't think of that. I remember being 15 so I know what you are feeling.

I didn't tell her NOT to have sex, just that there is no protection that is 100% effective. Soooo, if one wishes NOT to be a mother 100%, no matter what age, one should abstain from sex.

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Originally Posted by babigirl1

well telling a girl to not have sex isnt the answer........ Look at the way the world is today. I feel if you are going to have sex PLEASE PLEASE always use protection. you can get a pregnacy test that will tell you this soon if you are or arent. you need to think of std,s not just not getting pregnant. sweety you are at an age where you hormones are full force and you need to think of your future. I know when you are 15 you dont think of that. I remember being 15 so I know what you are feeling.

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Even though the world is the way it is, you shouldn't encourage a 15 year old to have sex.

I don't think that teens are getting the proper sex education in school nowadays. I had sex education from the time I was in 5th grade until I graduated from high school.

Bottom line, if you don't want to be a mother, don't have sex. Pregnancy and STD's are consequences of sex if you are not careful.

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Originally Posted by Ladi Anonynous10

Hi im 15 years old and im in need of some help....On June 10th my boyfriend and myself had sex without protection and we just decided that when he felt he was about to get off he'd pull out....Sooo we did it about 4 times that way and he didn use the bathroom after any of those times. IM SOOOOOO SCARED is there any possibilties that i could be prgnant? I feel sick after i eat sometimes and im always very tired. I dont feel the like i use to. Can some one please help me!!!!!

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There is a chance you could be prgenant. You just have to wait and see if you get your period and if you don't, do a test. You can buy them from the local shops to.

You can't tell no teen that we can't have sex or not to do it. Its just a naturla thing for young teen couples to do it. And even using condoms etc doesn't always work. I am 16 and me and my boyfriend use protection and there's a high chance I'm pregnant. When you have sex you take in all the risks. Condoms can get the tiny hole in it and you could end up prgenant.

Its not about whether you are going to do it or not, teens just shouldn't be ENCOURAGED to do it.

I agree a 15 year old shouldn't have sex, but if you tell them not to. They will hide it or just do it cause they were told not to. That is what I meant. I have a 16 year old son and I have taught him to use protection. And he is still a virgin. I feel as a parent that you should have an open mind when it comes to all things. I don't encourage my son, but rather just keep an open mind eith the way the world is. I am 40 years old and when I was a teen it was much differentthan now. This 15 year old is scared and needs support. I'm sorry if I upset anyone with what I said.

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I agree a 15 year old shouldnt have sex, but if you tell them not to. they will hide it or just do it cause they were told not to. that is what I meant. I have a 16 year old son and I have taught him to use protection. and he is still a virgin. I feel as a parent that you should have an open mind when it comes to all things. I dont encourage my son, but rather just keep an open mind eith the way the world is. I am 40 years old and when I was a teen it was much differentthan now. this 15 year old is scared and needs support. I'm sorry if I upset anyone with what I said.

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I agree that they should be educated in every which way possible. I don't think blaming today's society is a good excuse though. I feel that kids should be more educated in school. I have talked to girls on here that don't even know what you do when you have sex. To me, that is terrible.

I agree. Kids these days are not educated enough.

Maybe people just think if teens don't know about it, they won't do it. But they will end up finding out about it from someone who more than likely doesn't know what they are talking about, and end up pregnant, or worse.

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Originally Posted by nauticalstar420

Its not about whether you are going to do it or not, teens just shouldnt be ENCOURAGED to do it.

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Not all teens are encouraged to do it! We just do it. If a young teen asks for advice cause they think they might be pregnant you don't sit and tell them they shouldn't have sex it's a little too late if the teen is already pregnant?

Look Dare, you are a teen, we understand that, we are parents. We have children of our own and we were once teens. So, we have a full round understanding of how this works.

What we are doing is giving facts.

Of course it's too late to tell a teen not to have sex if they are already pregnant. We are not THAT stupid. However, we are trying to teach what should have been taught by parents or teachers.

Do you know Dare, that young adults come here and don't even know how sex works? Nope, you have only been here a short time. We have teens coming here asking if they are pregnant because they had "dry" sex.

I had a girl here once who told me that she was having bad stomach pains, I told her to go to the ER because she was in labor, she told me that she could NOT be pregnant because she didn't swallow. Well, long story short, 2 weeks later I got an e-mail with pictures telling me thank you, she had a baby girl.

So, we are educating. (I'll get a reddie for this, but who cares) Sounds like you could use some education yourself Dare.