Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for a year now.. im 18 years old and he is 22. He has a child that just turned three and the mother is two-faced. At the beginning of our relationship she didn't get the concept about him being in love with another worman and she was no longer in the picture like that, just as the mother. We have constantly argued and she used to tell me that he will always have her heart and I'm just hear for his convience and things like that, well this being my first real relationship as brought me to many questions. My boyfriend and I get along awesome its like we were meant for each other and being this short of time we have helped each other through so many things. The only thing we ever fight about is his baby's mother. I am a very understanding person and does not like to argue but there's a point in time when I feel like I have to stand up to myself. With her being 23 its very hard, I would think someone of that age would be able to act a lot more mature than I am but she doesn't. She used to call him for no reason and to me it seemed like it was just an excuse to call but she would end up saying something about the kid. My boyfriend finally said something as she was calling every other day or so. She has gotten a lot better but she started calling his work instead of his cell phone. Well she never listened to him when he told her not to call his work so I said something the last time she called. Well you know this started an argument and I was very polite about it, he works in at a job that is constant work (running a printing press) and can't really get phone calls unless an emergency. But anyway since then we got into an argument and ended it with me saying that this isn't going to its not something that the 3 year old needs to hear or just for the fact of it. She has a boyfriend but still tries to get in our relationship. My main point is that yesterday my boyfriend and I took his child home and she has been staying out like 10 extra minutes from her hosue and her new boyfriends and with gas prices high it isn't very ethical. So my boyfriend made the statement he wasn't going to keep bringing him out here and she started laughing asking why and I simply said it's a waste of gas and lord knows all hell broke loose. She started screaming and literally acting like she was going to fight me. This woman is 23 years old talking to me, an 18 year old, and I had no idea what to do. The child was right there and that was so inappropriate and she then told my boyfriend that I am not to be with him when he brings his child home. Where does she have that right to tell us what to do.. Can someone just help me with this situation I love my boyfriend to death but its every time she's involved we end up arguing and that's just not us. Please help.
