I just started dating this new guy and well I am nervous and scared around him to show my emotions and myself and I realize he won't judge me or put me down and I know he really likes me and I seen him over the weekend and I was this bad off. Now when he calls I start shaking and little and nervous, I guess you can say I have butterfly in my stomach. I don't think I have dated a guy that has made me feel this way and I am not sure what it means. Also I think he is really interested in me and really likes me. I don't think he will hurt me and I don't think that is the feeling. I talked to one girl he has went out with and she ended up treating him bad because she got annoyed with him(she is rapid cycling manic disorder and gets annoyed quickly also started treating him like crap) she also told me he is really sweet and dedicated to her and treated her special so I know the feeling isn't because I feel like he will hurt me. I know that feeling.

Sounds like his end of it is good--that he likes you. You are dating him, so you obviously like him. I'd say at this point, learn to do things as friends, and don't focus so much on your nervousness. Why should you? What is making you do that? How could you when you know he likes you?

XenoSapien

I don't maybe cause I realize I am liking him also

Er, your.

XenoSapien

Thanks I will!

:)

THe reason why life is hard is that we can't do what exactly we want to do, we can't say what exactly we want to say, we can't express what exactly we feel! SOmetimes you have to bear it, have to express less and talk about things that are not what you really want to say. Everyone has strong emtions, but we just can't express it all the time. Try not to be emational but rational. ONce you get to know each other better and longer, you can start express it a little bit more at a time see how much he can handle.

It's OK to get them butterfly's and feel a little funny around him. That's a good thing. Just don't let it get in the way of you being you. Make sure you be yourself around him as well and have as much fun as possible. A guy will always want to hang out again soon if he had lots of fun and laughs last time you were together.

So just relax as best as you can and go with it. Everything will be fine.