I'm 17 and my boyfriend wants to marry me
I'm just 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 has plans on giving me a engagement ring the day of my graduration in '08. I told him I don't want to get married until after college but he said he wans to give it to me to always remember him by and so when I finish college (he's planning to going to college with me) we can get married. Is this a good idea? I told him to wait on the proposal but he is dead serious about making me his wife!
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I really liked you answer and am not ready thank you so much
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Thank you so much for our advice... I needed that
Stick with what you want!
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Starlady, Im just 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 has plans on giving me a engagement ring the day of my graduration in '08. I told him I don't want to get married until after college
Sounds like a great plan and you should stick to your guns.
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but he said he wans to give it to me to always remember him by and so when I finish college (he's planning to going to college with me) we can get married.
Poor guy loves you and is afraid to lose you.
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Is this a good idea?
No it isn't as its to far a way to commit right now and setting you both up for failure and takes away any options about your futures, together or apart.
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I told him to wait on the proposal but he is dead serious about making me his wife!
He is in love or thinks he is , but I see a great big red flag here and that is he thinks he can ignore your wishes, and impose his own agenda, NOT GOOD. Nip this in the bud with a very firm NO.:cool: