Ask Me Help Desk - How to get an ex-boyfriend back

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Originally Posted by cuddels

Hello everyone! this is kind of weird to me i am use to giving everyone else advice and now i am in need of some for myself; how ever i probably know the answer myself.

I was dating a guy for seven years off and on loved him but couldnt get to serious with him because of things people said about him how ever i did grow to love him deeply we had a strange relationship if we broke up he wouldnt want to talk to me but when we are together he couldnt get to close he would blush are act shy well now he is in a reltionship with someone else and to be honest i am to but i think about him often i even dream about him sometimes i feel like i want him back but only as a friend but when i call he acts as if he dont want to talk to me at times but at others he does so i dont know how to read his actions becaue he is wishy washy to me:confused: :confused: :confused: :o :mad:

The best way to handle this is to be completely honest with him and yourself. Why do you want him back now? If you guys couldn't make it work before why do you feel this time will be different? Are you comparing your current relationship to what the two of you had?
Sometimes, we tend to cling to an ex because we are miserable in our current relationship. I know I am asking you questions, but if you honestly examine your underlying emotions, then maybe, you can save yourself a bit of frustration and possibly heartache