Well me and my ex boyfriend Miguel went out for a year and 4 months I really loved him and me and him broke up 3 months ago during that week that we broke up he had a new girlfriend. I was really sad that I just didn't no what to do. They broke up a month later. Well a month and a half later, me and him talked on the phone for like 15 minutes and hung up. After that he doesn't talk to me and every time I send him emails to see how he is doing because I sent him 2 emails he just doesn't write back. I feel that he still loves me but he doesn't want to tell me. My mom and me have dreams that he is begging back for me and that he still loves me. Sometimes signs pop out like for example, are favorite song or I see his name pops out every where I go. I just don't no what to do and I really want to no if he still loves me or likes me and if we will go out back again. I still have high hopes we are.. but it makes me feel like I shouldn't have hopes. But please help me and tell me if my ex boyfriend miguel considers going back out with me or misses me?

Thanks.

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Originally Posted by xolilbabiin25ox

well me and my ex boyfriend Miguel went out for a year and 4 months I really loved him and me n him broke up 3 months ago during that week that we broke up he had a new girlfriend. I was really sad that I just didnt no what to do. They broke up a month later. Well a month and a half later, me and him talked on the phone for like 15 minutes and hung up. After that he doesnt talk to me and every time I send him emails to see how he is doing because i sent him 2 emails he just doesnt write back. I feel that he still loves me but he doesnt want to tell me. My mom and me have dreams that he is begging back for me and that he still loves me. Sometimes signs pop out like for example, are favorite song or i see his name pops out every where i go. I just dont no what to do and i really want to no if he still loves me or likes me and if we will go out back again. I still have high hopes we are.. but it makes me feel like i shouldnt have hopes. but please help me and tell me if my ex boyfriend miguel considers going back out with me or misses me?

thanks.

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If it has been months it probably won't be starting up again... what really interested me though, is that your mom shares your dreams of you getting back together. No offence but she should be helping you get over him rather than furthering your possibly irrational dreams of getting back with him. I understand the pain and am in the process of losing my boyfriend as well, but after 3 months I think you should move on.

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Originally Posted by dazedandconfused77

if it has been months it probably wont be starting up again... what really interested me though, is that your mom shares your dreams of you getting back together. no offence but she should be helping you get over him rather than furthering your possibly irrational dreams of getting back with him. I understand the pain and am in the process of loosing my boyfriend as well, but after 3 months I think you should move on.

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But like my mom hates him and like she knows that he has hurt me a lot with my emotions and like my mom is helping me get over him but my mom is have weird dreams about him wanting me back but my mom doesn't want him in my life know more because my mom doesn't like him.

Oh I see, you mean actual dreams, I thought you meant she was having dreams as in hoping, daydreams so to say... does it still hurt, the loss? Even three months later? Are you unable to move on?

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Originally Posted by dazedandconfused77

oh i see, you mean actual dreams, i thought you meant she was having dreams as in hoping, daydreams so to say... does it still hurt, the loss? even three months later? are you unable to move on?

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Yeahh.. it really hurts me like people asks me so how's u and your boyfriend and I'm like "what boyfriend" and it makes me really sad because he is my first love and all and my mom always tells me there are plenty of fish in the sea. It really hurts me that me and him are not together when we had so much fun in are relationship and 1 year and 4 months go down the drain. We go to the same school together and stuff and it kills me to see him. There are guys that like me and stuff but the only thing I think about is my ex boyfriend and that's its. And it really kills me. Seriously I wish there was something to change him like I am such I sweet girlfriend and I was always up to new stuff and we had fun and people say just give it time to see what he really lost and stuff but I think I gave it enough time! :(

All I can say is that I feel for you, losing you first love is so hard. It will be OK, really.

Thanks for your help.. really all I need is help and like I really love this guy and I really want him back and I try and think what I can do to make this happen. But my mind is in BLANK right now :(