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Elaine1963. I have been seeing a married man for almost four yrs now, we never go anywhere he just comes round for a chat and it inevitably ends up in bed.
Thats whats supposed to happen
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He finds it hard to show his emotions and says he doesn't love anyone not even his wife.
He has no problem with having sex though, does he??
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He becomes protective of her if I ask questions and says we are just having a bit of fun.
Thats how he sees you as his fun friend:rolleyes: and leave the wife out of it.:eek:
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I fell in love with him and found it difficult generally, he says he is unhappy at home and rarely has a sex life.
See, you have given him all that he wants and needs. His wife does the rest. Works great when everyone does their job and he is satisfied, oh by the way he doesn't givea rat a$$ about how you feel.
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We have now finished and I don't think it would work again because of my hurt and anger.
Took 4 years to figure that out, did it??
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He isn't consistent with the things he says and can be very hurtful, however, is very possessive and jelous if I go out or see anyone else.
Of course, you are his private piece. Sounds very consistent to me.
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What are his reasons for seeing me
Free sex
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and why show he cares when he clearly doesn't
To get free sex
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and why doesn't he leave his wife if he is that unhappy?
Guess he is not that unhappy, but telling you he is, gets him FREE SEX.:rolleyes:
You have wasted 4 years, and if you haven't learned that married men are a dead end street, you will waste even more time.:eek: