So my ex left me a message a few days ago on Msn saying she wanted to say something important. I text her to ask what a short time ago. Basically she wanted to apoligise for everything which happened between us and said she had it done to her to. Lol it was 6 months ago... We spoke for 10 minutes about life etc and I honestly didn't no what to say, I can't even remember what I did say. I think it was "O right, fair enough" Then her credit ran out. She apoligised for that on a text and I just said np ill see you around. Does she think apoligising makes things better?. god knows

I just wanted to write it out :(

I wanted her to say I want you back. Its so horrible being so alone at times. No more cuddles, kisses, talking, your all alone at night, in your thoughts...

I guess she feels guilty still. I hope she knows that she lost a good guy who never treated her badly and was allways there for her. I hope I will turn out to be the 'one that got away'!

Good bye 'first love!'

I personaly think if she tok the time to tell u she is sorry, it means u will b hearing more from her... like she wants to get back or something... be prepared... gd luck

Oh boy are you right... I sent a letter to my ex after a year and a half ago and now it's making me miss her even more. Now me and her are friends again and we even hang out.. I don't think this is a good idea because it's hard on my heart yet I still do it. Good luck

Jiser you should know by now if she is ringing up or apologzing those feelings are creeping back in there...
You should know this by now if there are no feelings then there is no need for her to contact yopu she would not even be thinking of you. People can be so stupid thinking abot things. After all the time you have spent on here you must realise if she contacts you she is normally doing this to maybe try and see if she can squeeze back in and she mnay now realise what she had with you and wants to go again... I know that's what you WANT...

Whatever you do don't forget ignore her don't take her next call, although you proibly will don't text for a few days look what she put you through KIing guys in fron of you what kibd of a girl is this. Push her away and watch her run you down. Tell her yourve taken time but you arenot sure how you feel now and its best if we just remain friends. Then never contacyt her let her ontact you... Take some of your own advice for once and move on or at least show her yourve moved on mate!!

I don't want to put a downer on anything anyone else has said here Jiser but you are a top bloke from what I have seen so far.

You must remember this also:

Make sure you don't become a revolving door (if you know what I mean).

This is regardless of her motivations for doing this.

Maybe what you really need is to be the one that got away and maybe that is what will/has happen(ed).

You did great accepting her apology, now keep it moving forward, and don't go back.

Yes, keep moving forward. Simple as that. There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
:)