I always compare myself 2 PAST girls my boyfriend has had sex with, I cant control it
Hey there
I don't know what my problem is, but I pester my boyfriend about girls he has slept with in the past... even ones from 6-7 years ago.
I have been with him for 3 years-and I know he would never cheat. It isn't that, that I am paranoid about, and I know he didn't know me back when he slept with other girls, and YES I KNOW he loves me and could care less about them now.
I just always think in my head... "what if so and so was better than me?"... or I think "what if this position or move reminds him of so and so?"
Or I think sometimes in bed he is pretending I am one of the passed girls he has slept with.
It's crazy, but I lost my virginity to him, he is the only one I have ever slept with, so I obviously have nothing to compare him to etc.. So I wonder, since he's had sex with lots of people... is that what he is doing to me?
Anyone have this problem-and know of ways I can fix it??
THANKS