I'm 17 &+ a Junior in hiqhschool and I met this dude in my class and he has been wanting to go out with me but I wanted to be with someone else... well he gave me his number and the last time we seen each other, he told me he got feelings for me! Well I don't know what to do, should I give him a chance or should I just let it go? He is really nice &+ I been knowing him for almost 4 months now so I don't know if I should call him or what

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Originally Posted by iiNFAM0US_MAMii

im 17 &+ a Junior in hiqhschool and i met this dude in my class and he has been wanting to go out with me but i wanted to be with someone else... well he gave me his number and the last time we seen each other, he told me he got feelings for me! well i dont know what to do, should i give him a chance or should i just let it go?? he is really nice &+ i been knowing him for almost 4 months now so i dont know if i should call him or what

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The only person that can give you that answer is yourself. If you like him, and see him as boyfriend material then go for it. There is nothing wrong with a friendship also, but it is entirely up to you in every way.

Give him a go

If you want to go with somebody else. This somebody else, why are you not seeing them?

If your not seeing anybody then I agree with others why not give it a chanch, but if you find that you do not really care for him in a relationship kind of way. Let him know. Do not stay with somebody just because they like you. If you do that you will only be letting yourself down and the other person. Just keep that in mind as things go along.

If you want to go out with soemone else GO AFTER THEM! Trust me I made that mistake twice now and I almost lost the girl I love... Don't compltly forget about this guy but go after the guy you really want to be with first

Give him a chance it may turn out to be the best thing you ever had... or at least you guys might become friends for life.

How do you feel about him? Is this someone you care about or would it only be someone to be with for the sake of being with someone, if you understand what I mean? If it's the former, then there's no harm in you calling him. Either way, I wouldn't think about getting seriously involved with anyone right now as you're not even finished high school yet. Are you thinking of college? That's another 4 years of your life committed. I'm certainly not telling you not to go out with people and not to have a social life because you should, but right now make your studies the central focus.