Hi, I'm 15 and going to be in 10th grade. I've never been in any relationship. I've seen how relationships go at my age around here, and they don't look good.

I know friends who say they love you to a girl, and then say they never want to see them, and then a day later they love them again.

I know that NO relationship has lasted more than a year let alone a week since the 7th grade.

Is it just me or does anyone else observe that something is wrong about this and maybe why.
I just wanted to know if this is the case everywhere or just around where I live.

Welcome to the world of romance as a teenager!

Right now, everyone is trying out who they can attract, how long they can keep them, how attractive they themselves are and how much the others are, checking out how different people make them feel, finding out how they make others feel, yadda yadda yadda.

This is all practice for The Big Time.

Just be as honest and careful and courteous and thoughtful as you can be, and hang out with others who are the same way.

I think that your friends are trying to be the ones who have a lots of girls.(to me that doesn't make any sense because you love someone or you want them to make you look popular).Just do whatever you feel.If you love someone truly tell them but don't do like your friends do because you might regret it because you can hurt a lot of people.10x for your answer on my question.cya around
There's a point in ur life when u realize who matters,who never did & who always will

He/she will come, you will melt, and you will spend eternity together. Be patient, I'm 15 as well (year 11 though, turning 16 in August :)) they will come. Sooner or later. Patience is good for you, remember, each rejection, each hurt, is just narrowing it down.

I never had a real relationship either until I was at the end of my 11th grade year. High school relationships aren't the best anyway, people at this age are still immature. Maybe you are more mature for your age. This situation could actually work out in your favor, it's good that your not caught up in all that boyfriend girlfriend crap, it takes up too much time worrying if they really like you or if they are going to break up with you. It's better to have a relationship when you are a little older. But if you feel you really want a g/f now don't settle for just anyone, only date them if you feel strongly about them.

I completely see what your saying... that happens all the time as a teenager. People start "liking" each other, then all of a sudden complete hatred comes between them, but then *presto* they're back together all happy again.

That happens every where, I have had 5 "gf's" in a day, I say I love them but that's not true, I'm going into 10th grade as well.

Hey... its not all shallow stuff at this age, I have feelings for a chick, and its unlike anything I have ever felt for anyone, its like I'm dying because she's my whole world and she's out of my reach, she's always out of reach, but never out of mind, and its really confusing because id die for her and I'm afraid because I don't know what these feelings are and its so confusing.