I am currently separated from my wife of 20 years. We've been separated almost 2 years. I've been trying to get her to commit to getting back together. Her response is that she doesn't know if I'll leave her again. There was no infidelity on my part the entire marriage. I just felt unappreciated and taken for granted. So we split while my last daughter was a senior in HS. Now she is a sophomore in college and we need to decide if its going to work or not. She travels with her job the entire week then is back in town on the weekends. She seems to being doing her own thing and when I see her on the weekend she doesn't act like she's glad to see me. We live in separate places. Every now and then we'll have sex but it seems its just to satisfy her needs when we do. She seldom calls me while she's out of town. After I have sex I always think we are on the path to working out out differences but she resorts back to her unappreciative state soon afterwards. What should I do? I'm tired of putting off giving someone else a chance when I thinks there's a possibility that we might get back together. Am I being naïve? When other women meet or see me they drool. I'm very handsome , 6'4" and athletically built. But my wife acts as though I'm 4'11" 300 lbs. She shows no appreciation for my looks, intelligence etc. She continuelly says if the other women think you are so great why don't you date them. I can't tell if she means it or waiting for a reaction from me. I'm tired of being taken for granted. What do you suggest?