Hello,

I have read about a condition called delayed ejaculation syndrome I think it was called. For about the past 3-4 years I have had this problem. If you know what premature ejaculation is, well this is the exact opposite.

I am extremely attracted to my girlfriend, I am verey confident in my sexuality (hetero) so those are not the problems.

I read somewhere that it could be caused by nervousness or fear of being unable to perform which in turn makes you not perform.

During masturbation I am able to ejaculate within the matter of minutes. But while having sex with my girlfriend, I can literally go for hours without . Some would say this is a good thing, but when you are trying to have a baby (the natural way) then this becomes an issue. Also my girlfriend is starting to have issues about what if its her? What if I she doesn't turn me on. I swear to her that it is not that.

You can see why I am frustrated.

Hmm... Maybe You Should Ask Your Docter And See What He Says...

Can your girlfriend masturbate you to climax? That will answer the question of whether you are attracted to her. (if not for you, it would at least make her feel good)

This isn't a answer but a question... I'm new so I don't know where to go, but can a males precum contain semen after a previous ejaculation and urinating? Or if someone could direct me to a place where I can ask this question!

To Skater Zero -

Precum can, and often does, contain semen no matter what.

Jeep1995,

Maybe you guys could try holding off on having sex for a few days. Then, when you feel like you're going to explode, just do it. You could also try refraining from masturbation for a few days, I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear, but, it's worth a try. Besides, letting things build up for a few days might increase the sperm count and give you both the baby that you so desire. Just a thought. I speak from no experience on this matter... my husband has the exact opposite problem. Good luck.

I have the same problem. Were you able to find out what the best course of action is?