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  • Jul 10, 2007, 07:13 PM
    Lady Baker
    Should I go work or not?
    Can I go to work right after my abortion my doctor does not want me to but it's not like I do much at work anyway
  • Jul 10, 2007, 07:44 PM
    lilbitofbs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Lady Baker
    Can I go to work right after my abortion my doctor does not want me to but it's not like i do much at work anyway

    Girl! what type of jub do you have that you can't take a day off? Ubless you're "this close" to finding Bin Lauden, (or something), this is the one time in your life that you need to take a day. Maybe, you feel OK physically, but I don't think you're prepared for the emotional roller-coaster that you're about to board. Stay home. Mourn. Pray. Reflect. Listen to God. Give yourself a hug. You'll be glad that you didn't treat this like "just another day", later on. You're a woman with inbred maternal instincts. You just lost a child, no matter the reason, your soul will grieve. Take the day.
  • Jul 10, 2007, 08:41 PM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lilbitofbs
    Girl!, what type of jub do you have that you can't take a day off? Ubless you're "this close" to finding Bin Lauden, (or something), this is the one time in your life that you need to take a day. Maybe, you feel OK physically, but I don't think you're prepared for the emotional roller-coaster that you're about to board. Stay home. Mourn. Pray. Reflect. Listen to God. Give yourself a hug. You'll be glad that you didn't treat this like "just another day", later on. You're a woman with inbred maternal instincts. You just lost a child, no matter the reason, your soul will grieve. Take the day.


    This is what I think too, except, you didn't lose that baby, you made a choice to get rid of it. To kill it. This is not just another day. Not another day for you at all.
  • Jul 12, 2007, 11:29 AM
    collinsmom
    Why did you post this under adoption?!
  • Jul 12, 2007, 11:38 AM
    J_9
    <moved to Other Health & Wellness>
  • Jul 12, 2007, 11:42 AM
    alkalineangel
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22
    This is what i think too, except, you didn't lose that baby, you made a choice to get rid of it. To kill it. This is not just another day. Not another day for you at all.

    I don't know if you meant it to, but this came out kind of harsh, Start... Im sure this was an incredibly difficult decision for this person, and she made the best decision in her personal circumstance.

    I also think you should take a day off and rest your body, you will need some time to heal both physically and emotionally...

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