Confused - and how hard do you try
I have been married for a little over a year. We were together 5 years beforehand and lived together for 3 1/2 of them. We have never really had a great sex (some prior trauma on my end that I am working on) life but seemed to be compatible otherwise and he always stated that it never bothered him (that is until AFTER we were married). We are very different people but it seems that is what brought is together. Last week he decided he wasn't in love with me anymore and we were done. I was completely blindsided and mainly speechless. He has always been against therapy/counseling of any kind. Seems the following day he decided we should try counseling (I feel like that is what should have been said in the first place). In any event we will be trying counseling but I have no idea what to expect and if I can ever trust him the same way again. So I don't know how much of this we can do. I love him, but I don't know if I can ever get over the fact that this may happen again.