I am madly attracted to a man in the army... He says he really loves talking to me and that I make him feel happy... I live in Oklahoma and when he comes home from the army he will be in Idaho... He said that if us talking leads to anything else he wants me to come stay with him what do I DO??

Well, if he is asking you to possibly stay with him then it has definitely lead to something else. How well do you know this man and would you be comfortable staying with him?

[I have known him for like a year and he won't be back from the army until three more years and I told him that as much as I have fallen for him I would be all ready and willing to wait for him and I would be comfortable staying with him I just want to know if its right

Sure, if your willing to wait!