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  • Jul 10, 2007, 02:33 PM
    Anonjuk
    Pregnant, Father Can't Be Traced, A Harsh Lesson?
    Hi, I wonder if anyone can give some positive advice.

    I am pregnant with my first child (4 weeks) after a one night stand. The father-to-be don't know for a number of reasons.

    1) He is living in Holland, but travels 9 months of the year working for exhibitions hall for a company with his friends and 2 brothers. Which he loves.
    2) I only had his mobile number for the UK which he recently bought on Pay-As-You-Go. I deleted it before known I was pregnant :o , but have arranged to get copies of the calls I made to retrieve it again (hopefully). Plus I do not have his contact details for Holland (it gets worse).
    3) I can not remember his surname! :o( very embarrassing! :o
    4) I have emailed and called the organisers and explained I need to get in touch with one of their previous contractor etc, giving details and the hotel name the group were stay at (missed off the preggie part). Only ask if it was okay for them to forward a message and my contact details to him or the company responsible for them, but I have not had a response as yet. On calling, someone was suppose to get back to me.

    As I only wish to just inform him and give him the opportunity to be in touch with his child once born, I am stuck as to how I can trace him as the hotel and the organisers are my only avenue. But I am sure they are obliged to follow the Data Protection Act and not wish to get involved.

    Do you think I would have to get in touch with the CSA to trace him or is there another way (apart from moving on and forget it)!

    Would be happy for some advice, before the hormones and mood swings kicks in.

    Thanks for reading and your time.
  • Jul 10, 2007, 02:56 PM
    NowWhat
    Do you know what company he works for? If so, do some research on that company. It may lead you to him.
    Good Luck
  • Jul 10, 2007, 03:42 PM
    Anonjuk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NowWhat
    Do you know what company he works for? If so, do some research on that company. It may lead you to him.
    Good Luck


    Thank you "NowWhat" for response (is appreciated)

    I had and the exhibition service company that organise stands, lighting etc said that their staff are living in the UK and if they were from abroad they might not be their contractors. So waiting for a person who worked on that event to return my call to verify this. Then I can find out if they know who had contractors from abroad (if they are willing to follow such information). For there must have a schedule and listing of all workers for security reasons.

    I will call them tomorrow again.

    Cheers :D

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