:confused: hi,
I have a boyfriend but I'm too shy and don't do things that your meant to do when going out with people I am only 12 keep in mind. However this girl asked me out for him ages agooooo and kept mitherin me to go out with him so I said yes. But now she keeps saying do I really lyk him because someone else does and she wants me to dump him. WHY I Don't GET HER??
p.s how would you dump someone nicely if I was too dump him??

For starters to dump someone the nicest way is to say, "Lets just be good friends."
Keep in mind it's the nicest way but also very painful to the person if they love you, and if they respect you then they will move on through the pain.

If you like him DON'T dump your boyfriend just because some other girl likes him. That is a very spineless thing for your friend to tell you that she wants you to dump him. It's even more pathetic and selfish for the person(s) who likes him to tell one of your friends to ask you to dump him. Think about it. You were so shy to ask him out. Your finally his girlfriend and now your willing to give it up. I want you to think of yourself better and stronger than this. I mean really seriously he's your boyfriend which must mean he at the very least likes you back. Ask him to take you out but don't be too possessive. It's just what I think. That and if you're really really shy just ask him to be a little more assertive with you since you are so very shy.

Hello.

Just do what you feel is right and don't cross your line, if other girls do cross the line, it will come back to them later. Just remember Guys want to play with / take advantage of easy girls but a real Guy will treat a nice girl the way she should be treated.

There is no way to be nice when dumping someone. The best thing is to be honest. Its better to hurt them a little now with the truth, a lie will hurt them and you much longer when the lie is exposed and it will be.

Good Luck
Dennis777