Everyone Seems To Be Different. I Feel Like I'm Losing My True Friends And There Should Be No Reason. Has Anyone Else Been THrough My Phase??

It's called puberty and everyone goes through it.

It hαppens, people grow, people chαnge.. especiαlly αt α young αge you wαnt to explore new things, you mαy be one of the "lαte bloomers" αnd feel like your being left behind-- don't worry I wαs there once.. mαke new friends, join αfter school αctivities: sports, debαte teαm, mαthletes -- whαtever interests you. Keeping yourself α) busy αnd b) meeting new people...

I know EXACTLY what you're talking about... in fact, it makes me feel better to know that someone else is going through it too! I just finished my first year of high school, and since the day I started, I felt like all my friends had moved on and left me behind for new ones. Actually, I nearly cried while waiting in line to get my books because I felt so, I don't know, almost lonely. But, eventually, I talked to them about how I felt. I told them that high school seemed to make them completely different people, and I wanted them to be their old selves again. To my surprise, they told me they thought I had changed too! We laughed about it, and now we're the best of friends again :) . I guess it was just because we were all nervous about the change of schools. I'm sure this happened to you for the same reason, and it's perfectly normal. Just try to relax and remember that everyone else is going through the same thing and felt the same way. It's especially hard for girls who are more in touch with their emotions, and take the changes a little bit harder than guys do. Some girls even try to hide their feelings of insecurity, so it may seem like you're the only one who feels this way, but trust me, I do too!

Yea I went through that too.. its just a part of life, your growing up and changing and so is everyone else! Nuthin ever stays the same! Life is full of change and sometimes you just got to go along with it and move on

People change all the time, Maybe its you who changing for example you don't like thinks your friends like anymore but what I am saying is that it can go both ways. The only way to resolve your differences is to talk...

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Originally Posted by Troubled Teen 13

Everyone Seems To Be Different. I Feel Like I'm Losing My True Friends And There Should Be No Reason. Has Anyone Else Been THrough My Phase ???

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I hope its not me you feel like your losing!
I'll allwaiis be here for you! X

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Originally Posted by shy_girl

I hope its not me u feel like ur loosing!
I'll allwaiis be here 4 u! x

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Nah shy_girl its deffo not u
Don't worry
I sorted out the problem with the other person
Thank you FOR UR POST X