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  • Jul 8, 2007, 08:16 PM
    babyfreak91
    Thanks to my exboyfriend
    ii can't b in anymore relationships anymore without thinking bout him. yet 2days ago, after recently breaking up with ma other ex, he calls an tells me he loves me an wants me back:rolleyes: ii agree 2give him another chance. but da problem wit him is that he doesnt like showing his emmotions towards me 2his friends. yesterday....he dissed me infront of his friends an that got me really upset. [since he told he he was going to change] ii havent spoken 2him since...am ii being 2over dramatic...ii really love him...an i can't stop dreaming bout him. should ii call him? im confused. maybe he's trying 2get back wit me 2break my heart just like ii broke his b4...should ii trust his intensions?:confused:
  • Jul 8, 2007, 08:42 PM
    Pook_Myster
    He said he would change, he hasn't - doesn't that mean that he has officially blown his second chance?

    Are you sure that you are not leaning on him to numb the pain of your recent break-up - he is a distraction?
  • Jul 8, 2007, 09:23 PM
    whiskey101
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by babyfreak91
    ii can't b in anymore relationships anymore without thinking bout him. yet 2days ago, after recently breaking up with ma other ex, he calls an tells me he loves me an wants me back:rolleyes: ii agree 2give him another chance. but da problem wit him is that he doesnt like showing his emmotions towards me 2his friends. yesterday....he dissed me infront of his friends an that got me really upset. [since he told he he was going to change] ii havent spoken 2him since...am ii being 2over dramatic...ii really love him...an i can't stop dreaming bout him. should ii call him? im confused. maybe he's trying 2get back wit me 2break my heart just like ii broke his b4...should ii trust his intensions?:confused:

    Welcome to the world of today. Everyone goes out with someone and breaks up. That desperately needs to change. If you want my opinion, then I would tell you to stop wasting your time waiting for him to change and just be friends with him. Friendship lasts much longer then a relationship, and requires no commitment. I would call him and tell him how he made you feel and then wait about a week or so and if he doesn't find some way to show you he's trying to change tell him you need to just be friends, for the time being.

    Hope this helps =]

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