OK this is getting so stupid. My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago I still think about him. He broke up with me not even teling me why. One night he comes on msn asking me all these questions about a guy I started to date. He asked me if I kissed him and why did I go out with him and all. He was also writing that he was going to die on msn cause of something he saw and refuses to tell me what it is even his friends were writing that death stuff. And he failed summer school so maybe his parents told him something all I noe is that we don't talk as much and its like all the time in the morning and at night theirs always something missing in my life. I tried talking to him he simply says I don't want to talk. I don't know what's wrong with him he acts like he doesn't want me which I noe that's not true and he doesn't want to rele see me with another guy but going back to school next year he's going to have to see me. When he broke up he did it on msn didn't even call me or talk to me face to face. And in our relashionship I was the one who would always tell him to do stuff and he said he loved me and all. I still love him and want him back I'm going to see him on Friday because I'm going to get my friend from summer school so any tips to get his attention or any advice PLEASE HELP!!

Why not simply tell him you want to get back together? Just say you miss him and you want to give the relationship another chance; then he has to decide whether he wants to pursue it. I don't think it has to be any more complicated than that.

3 weeks is a very short time.. you need to give yourself time to heal.. if you wanan get back with him ring him up.. talk with him. Get the ending you want.. or start something else knew.. but id think about it first if its what you turely want :)

First, think about why he left. I do not know how hold you are but I think he is just waiting for you to say sorry and ask to get back together. I have done that before (Im 15, Male). To get his attention just walk in and either avoid him, or just say hi and walk away. If he still loves you, he will be most likely be watching you as soon as you walk in. I hate it when a girl pretends to not know I'm near her when we both know we like each other, it drives me nuts and makes me want her more for some reason If you avoid him, he may think you no longer like him, OR he come and talk to you and say hello. Maybe try both? First ignore him. If he doesn't react because of it, then go say hello and walk away.

Thanks for your advice especially sgt hardcore really liked your advice think I'm going to use it but do you think I should look rele apealing when I go see him like look sexy think that willl get his attention

yea dress up,put on sum make-up and look your best!

Well I think you should look casual. Don't make him think that you are just dressed up for him. Look nice but not so nice that you look desperate to him. That's my 2.345 cents

Well, it's a tie for casual vs. sexy...

... and I'm not prepared to cast the deciding vote. You should probably go into your room now and try on two outfits: one casual and normal, and one scandalously revealing. Whichever you feel most comfortable in, go in that.


--huno

P.S.: in case you can't decide, we can help. To better help you, you should post pics so we can judge; take 10 pics. Now, in order to conserve bandwidth, you should take 1 pic of your casual outfit and 9 of your sexy, dirty, slutty, whory, morally reprehensible, way-too-tight, way-too-short, mom's-about-to-throw-you-out-of-the-house, publicly-unacceptable-even-in-Brazil outfit. :D

If he seem interested, go for it. If not Kiss himm goodbye

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Originally Posted by jojo114

ok this is getting so stupid. my ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago i still think about him. he broke up with me not even teling me why. one night he comes on msn asking me all these questions about a guy i started to date. he asked me if i kissed him and why did i go out with him and all. he was also writing that he was going to die on msn cause of something he saw and refuses to tell me what it is even his freinds were writing that death stuff. and he failed summer school so maybe his parents told him something all i noe is that we dont talk as much and its like all the time in the morning and at night theirs always something missing in my life. i tried talking to him he simply says i dont want to talk. i dont know whats wrong with him he acts like he doesnt want me which i noe thats not true and he doesnt want to rele see me with another guy but going back to school next year hes gona have to see me. when he broke up he did it on msn didnt even call me or talk to me face to face. and in our relashionship i was the one who would always tell him to do stuff and he said he loved me and all. i still love him and want him back im going to see him on friday because im going to get my freind from summer school so any tips to get his attension or any advice PLEASE HELP !!!!

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wow girl... (im a guy)... ur just like my sister... her boyfriend broke up with her like a month or so ago. And what do u know... she's dating a new guy and her X asked the same ? As your X. weird huh? I'm still on this case(im not a cop) because I lovemy sister and I don't want her to get hurt.(not love as in like f... me... love as in like family love) make the right choice and date the man u really love... don't just go to a guy that u think is nice.. oh yea, every guy is nice at first, but after that, he gets what ever he wants! Wth huh? Well write me if u like my advice... maybe I can help.

huno is the man! God I love what he writes. Anyway what you got to do is look beautiful, not slutty, look mature. Walk bye him say hi and smile. Wear perfume! Get him drunk on that smell! Then next time you see him pull him aside, put on puppy eyes and tell him how you feel

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huno is the man! god i love what he writes.

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Damn straight! In fact, you should take 30 pics... 0 of your normal outfit and 40 of your hooch getup. :cool:

OK guys thanks so I will dress sexy but not too sexy with straight hair down and I will wear perfume think I'm going to wear sunset heat tell me what you think of that perfume I find it smells really good and this is to prayerlord thanks for your advice I really liked it how's your sisster now is she OK after she broke up with her ex does she still think of him or if she doesn't howd you think she got over him thanks