Right here goes. Id been with my girlfriend for around 3 years and she was the absolute love of my life. We did everything together and saw each other everyday. When she started uni we vowed to stay just as close and we did, seeing each other every weekend as we were now in a long distance relationship (around a 3 hour drive away). She then got an offer of studying abroad for 6 months. I scrimped and saved and managed to get enough money together to go visit her for a month but unfortunately had to return for work/money commitments. Around this same sort of time I made the decision and we cooled things off a bit and was more like best friends who still had a spark together. Anyhows, feeling like I started to confide in my mates sister 4 advice and general chats. Nothing ever happened between us but we were close. My girlfriend/ex logged into my emails and presumed the worst, we broke up for good. When she returned home we went out for a drink and the spark woz still there so we got back together but she still wasn't sure about it all and I've been the 1 doing all the pushing. So deja vo, she has gone away this year for around 9 weeks. She still says how much she loves me, were an item and talks about our future. Her contact dropped off a bit so I did the stupid thing of checking her emails to see if she was getting mine. Even stupider I read a correspondance with her mate saying about the hot boys etc and dates she's been going on but how much she misses me and how ready she is for me now. I haven't told her I read it but also sher has told me she's holding back and waiting for me, not getting with other people. How do I approach the subject of invading her privacy? Should I wait the 6 weeks until she's home and talk properly? Sorry it's a bit long but its about a year and a halfs worth of drama! Wot do I do, she is still the love of my life?

It sounds like this drama is somewhat complicated and based on that, I'd tell you to keep this bit of information to yourself.

Telling her that you invaded her privacy is only going to damage her trust in you even more. Accept the lesson learned from such a stupid action and forgive yourself for the mistake... then bury it and let it go. She doesn't need to know you read one of her emails.

If you can't drop it and feel the need to "confess", do it when she's back and you can meet face to face. I'd expect that this is only going to lead to more drama, and probably another "break".

She is possibly still waiting for you to be with her. Just cause she is waiting doesn't mean no dates. Plus the dates are probably ways to keep busy or something. If she still wants you then you should be very happy that she still chooses you. I'd feel like more of a man but I know it hurts to a degree as well. Just let it go and see how far the two of you go. Good luck my friend!

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DO NOTHING... Do not tell her and never do it again. Now that you know she is wanting you, you can relax and enjoy your time together.

Snooping is wrong on many levels and generally leads to wild assumptions and guilt and drama. Why do I get the idea she knows you can check her emails???