Hi I'm thirteen and I have been mad about this lad for about a year, I kept telling myself it was just a stupid crush and that it would pass... I mean I have a boyfriend but I have recently started having feelings for this other lad again surely this means something... someone help! It hurts thinking about him all the time...

Hi shy_gal
You just got to tell yourself is it true love with your boyfriend?
Good luck
I hope you find the answer soon
BFFL
Troubled Teen 13 x

This is what I commented to another post on here not too long ago and I believe it applys to you as well...

"First of all no 13 year old needs to be crying over a boy you have years and years to do that (trust me) Secondly you can not possibly expect a 13 year old boy or any guy under 20 to take anything seriously especially a girl. We mature alot faster than guys sweetie, so maybe in a few years he'll be more interested. So for now dry your eyes and be HAPPY that you are single, like I said before there are plenty of years to cry over guys and being single."

Like everyone else has said, don't worry about it, you will find out what love is eventually, unfortunately from heartbreak, but who knows? Love is real, too real