My husband and I have been married for over 10 years - he is a workaholic and I have known this from the very beginning but I loved him and thought it would be OK. This is my 3rd marriage and his 2d - I am retired and he is still very much working. I just do not know what to do - I love him very much and I think he loves me, but he told me today that he doesn't know what he wants except that he wants to be with me forever. I am so tired of always asking him to talk and then when he does it just is about work, nothing else (I am not exaggerating believe me). I do not have hardly any family around, I have a couple of friends, but I am not very social - what scares me most is being alone with nobody that cares about me = am I insane? Why am I so afraid to be alone - I think it is because I have basically no family that cares anything about me. I am normally a positive person but this is taking its toll on me - please give any advice , help!