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  • Jul 6, 2007, 07:56 AM
    meggie_twin
    Girls being mean
    What can I do if a guy that I was seeing new girl and her friend keep calling me to tell me about their relationship? Its seriosuly breaks my heart every time they call. I keep telling myself to be strong and not care but how can I do this when I still miss and care very deeply for the guy. He doesn't feel the same about me so he trying to just tell me to be strong and not listen to what they have to say but easily said then done.
    Everything too they have told me has been true from day one. I keep saying he doesn't care for me anymore and he cares for her so just not care but I have nightmares all the time and cry everyday. Its awful.

    I do tell him what going on but there not much he can say or do because it keeps happening and what does he care anyway because he doesn't like me like that anymore. I don't think anything he said to me or me telling him about what going on is helping my situation anyway. My friends tell me to laugh it off and I am trying too but at the same time I am still deeply sadden about our break up and so finding out about their relationship is very painful to me.

    I want to move on but now all I think about is them together and its really stinks. I Need help to heal my pain and my heart and forget about him.

    PS. Its been almost 7 months . I just recently changed my cell number but they call my work
  • Jul 12, 2007, 05:45 PM
    XenoSapien
    Does your job offer a transfer to another store, and would they keep that information private? You do have half the battle won by changing your cell-phone number. You are also proving yourself quite a strong person by working to move on. They guy is obviously a class A jerk.

    Or, can you ask the management at your job that you are to not receive personal phone calls unless they are from family members?

    XenoSapien

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