The day I lost my Virginity I didn't feel a thing at all. No Joy No Pain Not even the feel of anything thrusting inside of me. To this day 5 or 6 years later I still don't fee a thing when I am having sex is there anything I can do? I can get off without too much trouble during oral sex but inside of me I have no feeling for a man what so ever.

This was the same as when I first lost my virginity there was no pain or joy.
But as I got older I got more experienced and knew what I liked.
I know this sounds horrible but try having sex doggy style while he plays with your . Trust me you'll like it
And may I ask how old are you?

I am 26 and so my only real hope is the same as when I have oral, my clitterouse. OK well if that is how it has to be, its how it has to be.

Why don't you ask the gyno doctor and see what they say. Sometimes if the guy doesn't fit inside of me the right way I can't feel them either.

You might want to check into different adult toys... I sell them myself... but there are many many many different ones to choose from. One of my favorites is a ring made of jelly that has a vibrating bullet in it surrounded by the squishy jelly so its not hard or painful The ring goes over his "business" and the bullet is above that... when we use this one its wonderful because we are both getting pleasure from this toy :) and the bullet is hitting my "button" so I can finish much more quick then usual. I also have issues with the actual vagina having sensations. I need the stimulation on my "button" or forget it I might as well read a book ! So try looking up Sex parties, or sex toys I have a website but I don't want violate any rules or regulations by posting it here... If I read everything and see that its OK to do that then I will , I would hate to get booted the first day I signed up ! :eek: Good luck to you !

I was the same way. I have my little vibrator that I use on my clitourus while having sex with my husband, and it's the only way I can have any fun :)