What should you do when the one u love betrays u and you don't even know why

Betrayed you how??

How?
What happened??

You yell

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We need a bit more information to help you out with your question.

Who betrayed you?
How were you betrayed?

Ill tell you what you should do! You should say fck it, you won't stand for the behaviour, accept it, concentrate on yourself for a bit maintaning no contact, as contact will put u back + add confusion. Once you get to a happy place single then maybe someone will want to share it with you. Take the time now to do the things you've allways wanted to do. Who cares what your ex does.. the best revenge is to be happy :)

Thank you all for your replies.

What happened is this:

He was my very close friend. I was always there when he needed me. He asks me out and knowing the kind of flirt he was I keep away my true feelings from him but as a friend always around. After long time I meet him, he tells he loves me I felt may be it is real as it is after so long. He comes close but when he tries to cross boundaries I stop him saying its not right. He says I don't trust him. I say I trust you so I am here to meet you but do not take advantage of this. After some days I feel he is avoiding me. I feel hurt. I call up his friends out of helplessness and I get to know he does not want me to get hurt becoz I love him a lot.he has put everything on me. He forced me to meet him, convinced me and he denied that he loves me to his friend and talking to him would make me hurt later so he is avoiding me! Time passes and I get to know many things. He did this to many girls. He is currently on it too. His colleagues keep away from him. His reputation is bad. People don't want to trust him!

I am shocked! Why I did not see all this in the entire 14-15 months I knew him. Was it that I ignored as he always came and told me that he was harmlessly flirting with others. Or was it because he always told me to trust him more than our other friends. I honestly thought he was not a bad person at heart and he could not harm anyone. I always stood by him when he needed. I was his friend! I had accepted him with all his faults. I later learn he even had encounters with prostitutes!! I feel dirty that he touched me... I hate myself for falling for him, believing him, for putting my trust in wrong hands.I feel sucidal.

I am very pretty compared to him, I earn more than him, he always appreciated me as a person (even his friends say this) then where did I go wrong? Why did they not tell me about him before? Why only after this ugly turn that they feel that I'd be exploited?I am thank ful that before things went worse or extreme it was cut. But I feel cheated, betrayed, stabbed? Cheated by my friend the only one I loved undivided for so long... I was always by his side with out expecting anything. Will he ever realise that what he did to a heart that only loved him he has almost killed the emotion of love in me? Why did he do it? I was his friend!! I feel disgraced, cheated there is not even one call from him after this happened... and every time I learn something bad about him it hurts badly. I hate myself for still loving him in my heart . WHAT DO I DO? WHY DID HE DO IT TO ME? WHY DID I NOT KNOW ABT THIS BEFORE? WHERE I WENT WRONG?

You cast your pearls before swine and they got trampled in the mud. Heal your heart and move on, and next time don't be so quick to assume you can know somebody well enough to trust them with your heart so soon.

I like that pearls before swine I will use this in the future

A little more information would be helpful. In what sense were you betrayed? Are you asking your question from a practical standpoint or are you asking how you can get over the hurt? Certainly the first thing you need to do is stand up for yourself. Understand that you had nothing to so with what happened to you and that it isn't your fault. You didn't deserve this and you need to think long and hard about whether you truly "love" this person. Sorry I can't give you a more concrete answer but you didn't provide much detail in your post.

OK, now that I've read your second post I can be a little more concrete. I think you're beating yourself up over nothing. Unless I misunderstood your second post, you just met this guy who, by your own admission, is very flirtatious. The fact is, you were just friends with him for 14-15 months. To say that he "betrayed" you I think is almost a little strong and implies that there was much more between you then there was. I think that , in your 14-15 month friendship with him, you imputed something between you that really didn't exist. I think maybe he picked up on that, which could have been what led to his trying to take advantage of you. That wasn't a nice thing to do and you rightfully stood your ground and didn't allow it to happen. The fact is, you learned an important truth about this guy, so now it's time to move on and don't give it a second thought.

You have done nothing wrong, it was he who tried to cross your boundaries. He hid his darkside from you, and now you can see him for what he is, that's a good thing, since you can stop investing in his friendship. Leave him and his friends alone, as they are on his side not yours. Move beyond this, and take it as a LEARNING experience.

Thank you for your answers I AM MOVING ON... and I hope I forget this as soon as possible