:confused: As my tittle says I'm in love with my best friend and I NEED HELP! See I've known this boy almost 12 years mabey longer. He's always been there for me as have I've been there for him. He means the world to me and so much more, but the problem is he don't even know he does. It isn't that I am afraid to tell him, its more of me being afraid of what he will think. The big problem is he never really stays single, see he's the type of guy that is trying to find that girl he'll fall in love with, and I wish so much for that girl to be me you know. BUT. He has a girlfriend who has been with for over a month who she loves him but he says he don't love her, he still loves his ex who he cared for so much. It scares me to feel this way for him, Because I know I will probably end up hurt If I find out that all he sees me as is a friend. --I mean don't get me wrong we make the best of friends, GOOFING OFF & ACTING SILLY:p , HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN TURN MY FROWN:( TO SMILE:) WITHOUT EVEN TRYING. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH IT HURTS. AND I Don't EVEN KNOW WHY.. . HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER HEARD THAT SONG BY TAYLOR SWIFT CALLED "TEARDROPS ON MY GUITAR" WELL THINK OF THAT SONG AND IT IS ME AND MY BEST FRIEND.
I NEED HELP REALLY BAD I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I'M SO CONFUSED!
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!:confused :

GOD hurts my eyes to read!

Ahhh that's better, thanks guys ;)

If you tell him it could jeapordise your friendship, however if you keep it to yourself you will never find out!

Hello.

Your time will come but you have to wait until it is the right time. Right now in his life he is still playing and trying to find himself. No one he is with right now will be the right one. In time he will see you for the special Lady you are. Until then drop a hint now and then. Hold his hand a little longer or the hug a little tighter. When he talks about the good and bad in his Ladies you can sneak in I wouldn't do that to my man or would do what ever the case would be.

The strongest relationship start as friends so relax and give it time.

Dennis777

He is so unavailable, and doesn't know how you feel. I don't really think he sees you as relationship potential, and you should move on, and back a way, until you can get over him. If he ask why, tell him, but you may be hurt very badly by his reaction. Sorry be happy your friends, and don't expect more. Find your own happiness.

Sorry to say its time not to be his best friend. Its healthier for you to remove him from your life.

K I went through the same thing as you are going through now. It is rough. But the only like good thing is to wait. I waited 2 years. And we ended up breaking up after a month because we were sooo close, it was just awkward after a while. Like you realize once your in the relationship, you feel like its just weird to date. But we still are best friends and love each other, but as friends only. I think that's a better way to do things, because you don't want to lose them in a fight or something forever... :)

U know what I know exactly how you feel sweety... it sucks but you got to tell him you love him but say it in a way so that he knows you still want to be friends if it doesn't work out... I been there sort of I mean he luved me but I didn't know... he once told me friendship sometimes turns into love but love into friendship... never.
I disagree but even if its true and you stop being friends after know that the moment he stops wanting to be your friend is the moment he stops deserving your friendship