Im curious now.
I have come across plenty of upset ladies because their men are registered on online dating.

Is that considered cheating?
(I suppose in the cyber world if there are flirts and emails going on with a complete stranger than that's saying something isnt)?

Anyone?

Of course it is cheating, a man registers on a dating service for one reason, to find someone to "date"
And the reason for online dating is either for live cyber porn or to latter meet in real life for sex.

A husband is cheatig if they are looking for someone to cheat with.

I have MANY friends who are in serious (or so they thought) relationships, who have found or someone else has found, their man on an online dating site. My best friend for example, have you heard of Adult Friend Finder .com? Just go to the main page and you'll see what I mean. Anyway, my best friend found her boyfriend of at least a year and a half on there! She was pissed, he blew it off saying he only went there to read the stories and to visit the online adult toy store... Whatever! I don't know if she believed him or not but if it was me I'd be making d*mn sure that I know ALL screen names and passwords and I'd be checking periodically. Problem with the two of them though is that they have separate computers and his is password protected. I heard a quote once that I love and it fits right in with this situation.. "If there's nothing to hide, then hide nothing" True True! But to answer your question with my opinion, I think it's cheating, but not in a way that can't be fixed, a way to break up over it. UNLESS he or she does it repeatedly and lies or the like. I sure as h*ll wouldn't go to any site that I wouldn't want my boyfriend going to, plain as that. I want to be the only woman that he wants to look at and the only woman that he adores, fantasizes and longs for. If I found out he was doing something like that I would feel degraded, unwanted and unattractive.