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  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:13 AM
    woh337
    What will intimidate a guy
    So guys...

    I am asking you, what are the things we(ladies) have done or about us that you think intimidates you?? :confused:

    Again, all the comments, answers and advice are appreciated.

    Thank you hun!
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:22 AM
    vball43
    A strong woman will intimidate a guy. Are you writing a book or something?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:23 AM
    kristynn
    An attractive, very good looking woman

    Right?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:26 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by vball43
    A strong woman will intimidate a guy. Are you writing a book or something?

    Hahahaha, I like your answer. TO your question: no I am not, I am just wondering. By the way, do you mean physically strong?? Or mentally strong?:rolleyes:
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:28 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    An attractive, very good looking woman

    Right?

    Like you are, hun:p hm... my understanding of intimidating is scaring... what is wrong with being good looking attractive? It scares guys away? Or my understanding of it has been wrong?:eek:
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:30 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    like you are, hun:p hm...my understanding of intimidating is scaring...what is wrong with being good looking attractive? it scares guys away? or my understanding of it has been wrong?:eek:

    I haven't said that but anyway... That's when they become painfully shy and mortally intimidated because it might affect their ego and then, they become fearful and don't think of themselves deserving, so they prefer staring while being in their comfort zone and avoid putting themselves on the line, and find excuses for themselves when they actually shouldn't. :rolleyes: It's sad!

    Where have all the guys gone?
    We need some CONCRETE answers here. :D
  • Jul 2, 2007, 09:38 AM
    vball43
    Mentally strong. Idependant. Doesn't need a man's help.
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:08 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by vball43
    mentally strong. Idependant. Doesn't need a man's help.

    I see... that makes lot of sense. Hey u play v-ball? I do too which college u play at?:rolleyes:
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:09 AM
    vball43
    I play 7 th grade vball lol!
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:13 AM
    woh337
    -_-; lol
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:14 AM
    woh337
    Comments on this post
    woh337 agrees: well explained... I know... what are the guys?

    I meant "where are the guys?"
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:25 AM
    Dennis777
    Hello.

    Lets see a man will feel intimidated when his Lady has to put on her glasses when he drops his shorts.

    If his Lady asks him to let her know when he is done.

    When his hooker charges by the inch and she has to pay him.

    Ok lets get real... Many Men feel threatened by any Lady that is more powerfully then he is. It can be looks, money, schooling. The problem is that same Man will always be wishing he had more. If a Man is happy with who he is and what he has then he will see a lady that has more as a positive not a negative.

    Dennis777
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:34 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by vball43
    I play 7 th grade vball lol!

    That's awesome! :)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:41 PM
    talaniman
    Real men are not intimidated by anyone let alone a female. So its safe to assume if you have a man who is intimidated by you for whatever reason, he isn't a real man. Having said that, he may be to in love to be intimidated by you. Having said that he may be intimidated by you because his social skills are not matured and honed to razor sharpness and he will be a real man soon, but can't wait. But even having said that, are you sure its intimidation your seeing and not just he is turned off and wants to get away? You have to be careful using words like intimidation, as it tends to intimidate those you ask questions of. That is of course should be noted that real men are not intimidated, by a mere word, in fact can be quite turned on by a female that can potentially kick their A$$, but that has nothing to do with being intimidated, its just a sex thing, like staring at a female, just the things we guys do to enjoy the females, and are not intimidated unless caught at it. At which case we let you feel like we are intimidated since all we want to do is get away from you before you get the idea to kick our a$$ and we know how intimidating, and embarrassing that can be , so to answer your question, NO!
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:48 PM
    woh337
    I am just curious about it, it has nothing to do with the "Staring at chicks" post!
    U sound like a real man;)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:52 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Real men are not intimidated by anyone let alone a female. So its safe to assume if you have a man who is intimidated by you for whatever reason, he isn't a real man. Having said that, he may be to in love to be intimidated by you. Having said that he may be intimidated by you because his social skills are not matured and honed to razor sharpness and he will be a real man soon, but can't wait. But even having said that, are you sure its intimidation your seeing and not just he is turned off and wants to get away?? You have to be careful using words like intimidation, as it tends to intimidate those you ask questions of. That is of course should be noted that real men are not intimidated, by a mere word, in fact can be quite turned on by a female that can potentially kick their A$$, but that has nothing to do with being intimidated, its just a sex thing, like staring at a female, just the things we guys do to enjoy the females, and are not intimidated unless caught at it. At which case we let you feel like we are intimidated since all we want to do is get away from you before you get the idea to kick our a$$ and we know how intimidating, and embarrassing that can be , so to answer your question, NO!

    Except for this, what's a "real man"?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 02:10 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    Except for this, what's a "real man"?

    Real man is HUno:D :o ;)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 02:12 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    Real man is HUno:D :o ;)

    God! You love him that much and he's not even here now! I can't believe it! :D

    But I think he's cheating on you. :rolleyes: I'm sure he's out on a date with someone or preparing for it... :p
  • Jul 2, 2007, 02:14 PM
    woh337
    Are you with him now?
    Oops, you think he got depoted by to Mexico? Dang, I told him get the citizenship earlier... :D
  • Jul 2, 2007, 02:15 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    r u with him now?
    Oops, u think he got depoted by to Mexico? dang, I told him get the citizenship ealier...:D

    LOL WHAT? I'm in Canada, he's in the States.

    I don't know. Talk to him, not to me. :)

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