Originally Posted by Help27
I was in a serious relationship for 4 years and the wedding was 1 month away and things were going rough. We decided to take a "break". Well 3 days later I find out that she is seeing one of my friends that I have known for 20 years. This took me by suprise, because she did not cheat there is no way that she could, and she would tell me if she had feelings for someone else. But she will not give us another chance or says she doesnt know what she wants. The hard part is that we have a 11 month old son together and we have an agreement on visitation. It is very hard to let 4 years go and just drop it all like that when I see her everyday when I get my son. How can I get that spark back that we used to have? We were both at fault as far as the separation goes, and neither of us have trouble admitting our faults. I would move heaven and earth to be with her again. What should I do?