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I hate my body and how it looks... I thought of suiced and drinking achol to I don't know what to do... I almost stolled one from my moms houes... I don't know what to do... I can't talk to anyone with these thoughts becaces they mint think that I am that I just kidding with them right know I starving myself so I will get that body that I won't... and every one will look at me at onces... I love my life but then agean I hate it I don't know what to do... If any one out their can talk to me about these things I would be so happy... I can talk to my parents because they won't me to be perfect pleass some one help!. Not only that. My mom found the yellow riben book lite and stared to yell at me because I marked something's down... I put a happy face on for her but deap in side I'm crying...

Well just to reassure you that no one is perfect. Your parents or you having the impression that parents want you to be perfect is obviously putting a lot of this unnessasary pressure on yourself.

Now, if you want to lose weight it is a slow process. If you take the right steps to lose weight and do it slowly it will actually work better.

Starving yourself, is the wrong approach because the starving of your body will send messages to your body, and when you finally start eating again your body is going to store a lot more fat because it will think it will not get fed for a long time. You will by starving yourself will gain more weight in the long run and become heavier, Do you want this?

If you want tips on weight loss and also if your still in school, please make an appointment with your school counseler, it is private and needs to remain private.

So please seek out counseling and you can get all your thoughts out and possibly be given advice on how to handle those feelings.

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Originally Posted by Dreams of lies

I hate my body and how it looks..... I thought of suiced and drinking achol to I dont know what to do... I almost stolled one from my moms houes... I dont know what to do... I can't talk to anyone with these thoughts becaces they mint think that I am that I just kidding with them right know I starving my self so I will get that body that I wont.... and every one will look at me at onces.... I love my life but then agean I hate it I dont know what to do... If any one out their can talk to me about these things I would be so happy..... I can talk to my parents because they wont me to be perfect pleass some one help!.... Not only that. my mom found the yellow riben book lite and stared to yell at me because I marked somethings down..... I put a happy face on for her but deap in side I'm crying....

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Originally Posted by Dreams of lies

I hate my body and how it looks..... I thought of suiced and drinking achol to I dont know what to do... I almost stolled one from my moms houes... I dont know what to do... I can't talk to anyone with these thoughts becaces they mint think that I am that I just kidding with them right know I starving my self so I will get that body that I wont.... and every one will look at me at onces.... I love my life but then agean I hate it I dont know what to do... If any one out their can talk to me about these things I would be so happy..... I can talk to my parents because they wont me to be perfect pleass some one help!.... Not only that. my mom found the yellow riben book lite and stared to yell at me because I marked somethings down..... I put a happy face on for her but deap in side I'm crying....

I will agree with Jesus Helper, no one is perfect, the girls who look like models, get breast jobs, nose jobs, rump jobs and stlll think they need more. And more and more. Girls who are 20 lbs under weight often starve thierself because they "think" they are fat, they will not believe the truth. So if you are a little heavy, don't starve yourself, that just makes you sick, not skinny. You get on a proper diet, ( plenty can be found on the internet or best talk to your family doctor) And you exercise, walk, and walk and walk, start with a mile or two a day and work up. The perhaps jogging after a while.

And often the way we dress effects, if you can't afford much, you can do wonders at Goodwill or yard sales.

All that happens if a unhappy person gets drunk, you have a unhappy drunk,

[QUOTE=Dreams of lies]I hate my body and how it looks... I thought of suiced and drinking achol to I don't know what to do... I almost stolled one from my moms houes... I don't know what to do... I can't talk to anyone with these thoughts becaces they mint think that I am that I just kidding with them right know I starving myself so I will get that body that I won't... and every one will look at me at onces... I love my life but then agean I hate it I don't know what to do... If any one out their can talk to me about these things I would be so happy... I can talk to my parents because they won't me to be perfect pleass some one help!. Not only that. My mom found the yellow riben book lite and stared to yell at me because I marked something's down... I put a happy face on for her but deap in side I'm crying... qute:

" Life can't Kill me, But I can..."

You need to realize all your blessings in life. At least you can wake up everyday. I just had my aunt die of lung cancer. She can't wake up and look outside, or she can't just go for a drive. You are so blessed. If you kill yourself, you don't know how bad you will hurt your loved ones. At my aunts funeral today everyone was devastated, I bet your family would be too. Suicide is a selfish act.
You need to lose wieght the right way. Don't put your family in pain that they don't have to be in. Start watching your calories everyday, go for walks. Exercise also helps the depression. Right now it sounds like you are just sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. You need to get up and work on what you don't like. See a doctor for your depression. Just do something so that you aren't so depressed. But please don't take your own life its not worth the pain you will put your loved ones through.

No suicide, no starving yourself, no alcohol (for dealing with ), and no theft.