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  • Jun 29, 2007, 01:19 PM
    Bautista
    Im Confused
    :confused: Well OK I have this boyfriend name Carlos I have been with him for 1 year and almost 7 months... everything between us was great until I started talking to this girl name Jazmin, Jazmin she is so pretty people say I am prettier than her, and others say she is prettier than me I don't know I am not sure but well anyway ever since I started talking to her everything between Carlos and Me hasn't been the same, well at first I found out that he was talking to her on the phone for one of his friends that likes her and well she asked him if he liked anyone and he said to her he liked her, and well when I found out that really did hurt me so bad I didn't know what to do so when I saw him I talked to him and I asked him if it was true that he told her he liked her and he said yes and I asked him if he meant it and he kept telling me "NO" and than I asked him why he told her and at first he kept saying he didn't know but than he told me that he was stupid that day and all this , but he told me he loved me and everything and he even told me in front of her and well I believed him but than again a few weeks later I found out by Jazmin that he told asked her for a picture of her and her phone number and well I asked him why he did that and he said "Why I can't have a picture of her" and I told him no but I don't know well that really did hurt me so bad, and I think he likes her but he keeps on telling me he doesn't like her but I don't know what to believe anymore. But well I started talking to this boy name Salvador he is so sweet and he really does like me the things he tells me is like wow nobody has ever told me something like that, but nothing can happen between us yet because like I am with Carlos and well also because we don't go to the same school, but I don't know I am starting to like Salvador a lot and when I try to think of Carlos, Salvador just pops into my mind like I don't know I don't think I got any feelingz for Carlos anymore I don't know I probably do but maybe I just don't know it he probably hurt me so bad that I don't know about my feelingz for him anymore, I just don't know what to do help me should I brake up with Carlos or does he like her or me? :(
  • Jun 29, 2007, 02:01 PM
    margarita_momma
    Sweetie, I hate to say it but it sounds like he is cheating on you with her. Just loose the jerk and get with Salvador.
  • Jun 29, 2007, 02:45 PM
    Dennis777
    Hello.

    Let me see if I'm getting this right. Your mad at Carlos for talking to another Girl but its Ok for you to talk to Salvador. Now you can't say Salvador is just a friend if your letting him tell you so many sweet things. Hummmmmmmmmmm Maybe you all need to take a step back and figure out what you all want.

    Good Luck
    Dennis777
  • Jun 29, 2007, 07:59 PM
    Bautista
    Well after I found out he was talking to Jazmin that's when I started to talk to Salvador!
  • Jul 25, 2007, 11:59 AM
    Canada_Sweety
    first off... how old are you? Second, I would say that once a cheater always a cheater. Third, the last guy you mentioned is clearly playing both of you.
    Finally... go for the guy that calls every day and wants to be with you.:)
  • Jul 28, 2007, 10:20 AM
    talaniman
    When you can't make a choice, then choose no one. Then you are free to go with someone new.

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