My 3 year old boy is autistic and refuses to be in the same room with my 9 month old daughter. He has never really liked being around her, but we thought he'd get used to her. This makes our days really difficult because they both insist on all of my attention. I always feel like I'm leaving someone out, and it usually ends up being the baby. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

Maybe try having some sort of play time? Get some of the baby's toys and a few of your 3 year old's toys and try to play with them both? I don't know if it'd work, but it's a thought