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  • Jun 25, 2007, 08:29 PM
    amitk
    Is she pregnant
    Me and my g/f had sex.. 15 days ago... and after having sex one day later she had her period... I didn't eajculate in her... but still I have a feeling.. something might have dropped in... not sure... how long does it take to get to know... that she is pregnant... or how can I assure that she is not getting pregnant.. she says she's 100% that she is not pregnant.. but am worried...
  • Jun 25, 2007, 09:12 PM
    Xrayman
    Just prior to menstruation, this is a safe time as well as you not ejaculating inside her-I highly doubt that she is pregnant.
  • Jun 26, 2007, 06:09 AM
    Kattalover
    If she knows her cycle and had a regular period the day after you had sex, she isn't pregnant. However, the only way to make sure that a girl doesn't get pregnant is to use contraception at all times - and pulling out before you ejaculate is NOT a reliable method of birth control!
  • Jun 26, 2007, 06:17 AM
    Squiffy
    Womem can get pregnant from precum, so you need to use contraception. Pulling out is not a method of birth control! If she had her period on time then she won't be pregnant, but if it was 15 days ago she could take a pregnancy test. If not, wait until she is due her next period and if she doesn't get it, test again. Testing is the only way to check accurately for pregnancy.
  • Jun 26, 2007, 07:47 AM
    alkaline
    It is very unlikely that she is pregnant. That wasn't a particularly fertile time for her in her cycle, and she has already had a period since then. It sounds like she isn't having any symptoms of pregnancy (otherwise she wouldn't tell you she is 100% sure she isn't). Also, you didn't ejaculate inside of her, so will also make it less likely. If she misses her next period or is late, take a test, but I doubt that will happen.

    But, dude, seriously... remember how you feel right now. Please. Are you scared? Nervous? Totally freaking out at the prospect of being a father or having to make a decision on what to do if she is pregnant?

    Remember this!! Learn from this!! Please!! Always use a condom, but take this opportunity to talk to your girlfriend about using a second form of protection! She can get on the pill or the patch or that new ring thing, there are shots, she has so many options. If she can't talk to her doctor about this for some reason, there are many Family Planning Clinics that she can go to.

    Condoms don't work 100% of the time, nothing is fool proof. So use two things so you have a back up!

    Just please remember this feeling so there isn't a next time!
  • Jul 15, 2007, 10:27 AM
    Soph_E
    Think about if if her p-time was getting close activity in that area can trigger it sooner. Think about a balloon ready to pop and you wacking at it... kind of that simple. No worries me and mine sex many times always condom never problem. She's fine in my opinion but I remember having the same thing happen and worrying about itall month-- next month I was late but it was BECAUSE I was worrying. Don't think anything of it, don't worry-- only time you should worry is if next month it doesn't come at all. I think you're fine just continue being careful.
  • Jul 25, 2007, 01:44 AM
    jainaproudmore123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by amitk
    me and my g/f had sex..15 days ago...and after having sex one day later she had her period....i didn't eajculate in her....but still i have a feeling..something might have dropped in...not sure...how long does it take to get to know...that she is pregnant...or how can i assure tht she is not getting pregnant..she says she's 100% tht she is not pregnant..but am worried....

    You are an idiot. A girl who period after the day she have sex are sure to be not pregnant. You know why, its because her ovum which is suppose to join with your sperm is out with her period the next day. So, how is it possible for her to pregnant?
  • Jul 25, 2007, 04:54 AM
    Soph_E
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jainaproudmore123
    You are an idiot. A girl who period after the day she have sex are sure to be not pregnant. You know why, its because her ovum which is suppose to join with your sperm is out with her period the next day. So, how is it possible for her to pregnant?


    Actually that is not true. For many people it can be different. Also many people still get their period while pregnant.

    For some all eggs they have are dispensed the day their period starts or throughout the cycle but for others the egg is not dispensed until the week afterward... and since sperm can live inside someone for days on end there is a likely hood that the sperm united with an egg after her cycle ended.

    Only time will tell.
  • Jul 25, 2007, 04:55 AM
    Soph_E
    Yet I've used a condom with mine many times and protection has proved to work. Trust me I've freaked out before to but just be calm and only start getting scared if you know. Not just if you're worried.
  • Jul 26, 2007, 04:28 AM
    jainaproudmore123
    I don't know maybe you are right.:p

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