I understand that this physical existence we are in changes when we die. My question is, how do those who pass on hear us and know how we feel? Are they in such a state that they understand all that we experience, or are they so far past this existence, that everything in this one is irrelevant to them? My friend passed away on 4-20-07. He was flying to the Bahamas for a fishing trip and when the plane went into bad weather, it went down. I have been struggling with his death and our relationship before he died for a while. I am coping much better, but I wonder if he now knows how I felt. I think I see signs from him all the time but I don't know if its wishful thinking or what. I know I have felt his presence, but what does he feel of mine? I have read many books since his death and now I wonder if we were together in a past life. Our connection was immediate and intense, but never crossed any boundaries. I am older, married with kids and he is young, 22 and single. We worked next door to each other. He pursued me for a few months, but I wouldn't ever make a move. I didn't want to ruin my marriage and family. I have been with the same man for 15 years, this encounter was the closest I ever came to ever entertaining thoughts of being with someone else. He was definitely an evolved soul, he had a strong presence and we were somewhat drawn to each other. The day before he died, he tried getting close and I didn't let him. I didn't say goodbye either. I never told him how I felt but after he died every emotion I had came out with a vengeance! I found out we are both Leos. His birthday is 08/21/1984. Mine is 07/28/1972. Does this have any significance on our connection? Can he hear me? Does he know all of my feelings now? Will I see him again? Lots of questions, I am still struggling a bit as you see.

I don't want to get your hopes up. I've been on this site a while and no one has ever offered true psychic advice here.. if such a thing exists.

Thank you for your honesty, I should have figured as much. Sometimes we want answers that we just won't get, no matter how much we need it. You are probably right. I should just focus on moving forward.

As regards speaking to the dead... don't even try to contact them... don't get involved in psychic activities... say a prayer for the guy.

I believe that they do know how we honestly feel.
Trying to communicate with them is wrong according to the Old Testament.
But I don't think that feeling their presence or thinking about what you want to tell them is wrong.
There are people in life that we automatically have a soul connection with. I don't believe it is past life stuff because I do not believe in reincarnation for various reasons. You both being Leo's and having a lot in common your energy was most likely attracted.

I know that we can speak to our love ones after they have passed over. On 3 occasions my heart stopped and I was pronounced dead; since then I have realized that I hear and speak to the departed.
The funny thing is we all can speak to them and they speak to us, they leave signs for us to say that they are still here.
I intend to teach people how to speak to them who ever want to.

I know that we can speak to our love ones after they have passed over. On 3 occasions my heart stopped and I was pronounced dead; since then I have realized that I hear and speak to the departed.
The funny thing is we all can speak to them and they speak to us, they leave signs for us to say that they are still here.
I intend to teach people how to speak to them who ever want to.

Shatteredsoul, feel free to regret your loss of his company. Even wish for the romance of the young guy pursuing you. If you wish to address him as you communicate with the other side, do it.

You will not know the communications protocols on the other side until you get there, if then. It's extremely doubtful you can draw him back, however.

Hi can I just point out here, that's its not a psychic you see to contact loved ones in the spirit world, it's a medium that talk,see,hear and sense spirit and loved ones that have passed on, not psychics,many people tend to get the two mixed up. Nearly all mediums are psychic but not all psychics are mediums.

It is my opinion that we can all talk to the Dead, myself, I just believe that I can, and I further more believe that when I hear their voice in my head, I believe that this is not just my mind playing tricks on me, and that they have actually communicated with me. I believe that it is my belief that makes it possible, because if we don't believe, we block their messages that they are trying to send. If anyone is with me on this, (which I don't blame you if you are not as this is something that is really hard to fathom) Then just realize that all you need to do is just talk in a normal voice, just like you did when they were here with you, AND THEY CAN HEAR YOU, and then listen to your thoughts because these communications come electrically through brain waves, and then just believe what you hear, don't write it off as its just you making this up in your mind just to hear what you want to hear, JUST BELIEVE. And also, we are all psychics, we are all born with 5 senses and we are strong in one particular one of the 5, we are also strong in a second sense, just not as strong as the first. However, these senses are each like an instrument we can not just use them right from the time we become aware of life, just like a guitar or a piano, we can not just play one right away, we must practice until we master it, the same goes for these 5 psychic senses that we are born with, we must practice the two that we are stronger with. It is my hope that this will be helpful to everyone so that every one can be at peace with the Dead. PLH

It is my opinion that we can all talk to the Dead, myself, I just believe that I can, and I further more believe that when I hear their voice in my head, I believe that this is not just my mind playing tricks on me, and that they have actually communicated with me. I believe that it is my belief that makes it possible, because if we don't believe, we block their messages that they are trying to send. If anyone is with me on this, (which I don't blame you if you are not as this is something that is really hard to fathom) Then just realize that all you need to do is just talk in a normal voice, just like you did when they were here with you, AND THEY CAN HEAR YOU, and then listen to your thoughts because these communications come electrically through brain waves, and then just believe what you hear, don't write it off as its just you making this up in your mind just to hear what you want to hear, JUST BELIEVE. And also, we are all psychics, we are all born with 5 senses and we are strong in one particular one of the 5, we are also strong in a second sense, just not as strong as the first. However, these senses are each like an instrument we can not just use them right from the time we become aware of life, just like a guitar or a piano, we can not just play one right away, we must practice until we master it, the same goes for these 5 psychic senses that we are born with, we must practice the two that we are stronger with. It is my hope that this will be helpful to everyone so that every one can be at peace with the Dead. PLH

We can talk to lost loved ones whenever we want. We can talk to God whenever we want. Talking is how humans on this planet communicate. Keep in mind that that is not necessarily the case for beings not physically on this planet

You talk to God, don't you? And you believe He hears you, right? I believe it is basically the same thing for dead people. Just talk to them as if they were right next to you. They hear you.

A psychic gave me this advice: Imagine the person you want to speak to. If you can see them in your mind, you have direct contact with them.

They are on another plane and they see and perceive things differently now. We appear to them as energy. When they look at our energy they can see our sadness or regret; they can see that we cared about them, that we forgive them. They do NOT look at us and see a new pimple and they don't laugh if we are sitting on the toilet. They see *us* as we really are. Our spirit, our energy.

I've never said that last part before, ever. I think it may have come from him. This may be the message he wants you to hear.

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A psychic gave me this advice: Imagine the person you want to speak to. If you can see them in your mind, you have direct contact with them.

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I can see unicorns in my mind, does that mean I have direct contact with them? I also see teapots, do I direct contact with them too? See, this is why you shouldn't believe anything psychics say.