Can we speak to the dead?
I understand that this physical existence we are in changes when we die. My question is, how do those who pass on hear us and know how we feel? Are they in such a state that they understand all that we experience, or are they so far past this existence, that everything in this one is irrelevant to them? My friend passed away on 4-20-07. He was flying to the Bahamas for a fishing trip and when the plane went into bad weather, it went down. I have been struggling with his death and our relationship before he died for a while. I am coping much better, but I wonder if he now knows how I felt. I think I see signs from him all the time but I don't know if its wishful thinking or what. I know I have felt his presence, but what does he feel of mine? I have read many books since his death and now I wonder if we were together in a past life. Our connection was immediate and intense, but never crossed any boundaries. I am older, married with kids and he is young, 22 and single. We worked next door to each other. He pursued me for a few months, but I wouldn't ever make a move. I didn't want to ruin my marriage and family. I have been with the same man for 15 years, this encounter was the closest I ever came to ever entertaining thoughts of being with someone else. He was definitely an evolved soul, he had a strong presence and we were somewhat drawn to each other. The day before he died, he tried getting close and I didn't let him. I didn't say goodbye either. I never told him how I felt but after he died every emotion I had came out with a vengeance! I found out we are both Leos. His birthday is 08/21/1984. Mine is 07/28/1972. Does this have any significance on our connection? Can he hear me? Does he know all of my feelings now? Will I see him again? Lots of questions, I am still struggling a bit as you see.