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Dear dear soul. Do what you know is right. It sounds to me like you should take this job opportunity. You know... the Lord loves you NO matter what you do. Whether you leave your husband or not. The Lord can't make decisions for you. He simply won't. But He will support you in whatever decision myou make. YOU can't make your husband change! You know that and yet you waffle around with this faith thing. You can have faith that the Lord will help your husband but you don't need to be there while it happens. Paul couldn't stand to have Mark with him on their missionary journeys. He divorced him from the group but God still loved Mark even if he was a coward or weak.

Last bit of advice. Remember that the Holy Spirit dwells in you and helps you make decisions. If your heart is leaning toward one choice more than the other it is the Holy spirit leaning you there. Don't doubt that, or you will fail at everything in your life.

Good luck